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homesoon.

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Apr 15, 2024
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As the title suggests, what helped you settle on a day and feel confident in it? I've had the phrase, "don't think about what came before or what comes after; take a deep breath; bend your knees; and jump," circulating in my head for a bit now. I'm trying to pump the end of August in my brain, it'd would allow me to complete a few things I want to do before I die and a few promises to others I know I can complete before going through with cbt. But, I'm worried it will just be another date I give myself and don't go through with. I just want to be done and over with this shit. I'm fed up with life and I feel I've thought on it long enough to know I truly, deep down, feel that way.

So, how? What's helped you?
 
rosepanda

rosepanda

Member
Jul 20, 2024
63
I've never attempted so take this with a grain of salt, but I picked a date that had emotional significance to me and allowed me to get everything I had off my plate. I don't know if picking a date is necessary or not but that's just how I saw it
 
Nefera

Nefera

Member
Jun 30, 2024
55
I just picked whichever date that wasn't close to a holiday or a loved one's birthday
 
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Terios

Terios

Member
Jul 30, 2024
33
I still haven't picked a date because I still have hope that there's a chance thing might get solved and get better, sometimes I get the urge to just go through with it, and I've been the same way for about a year now, but I also really want to make sure that at I have atleast done everything I could to fix things before going so i've no choice but to struggle some more.
 
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LittleMoose

LittleMoose

~When I die, I'll keep the angels by your side~
Aug 2, 2024
31
I've been thinking of doing it on my birthday. I dunno, seems fitting
 
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itsalittlecold

itsalittlecold

Guided by the void
Jun 7, 2024
141
The day one of my parents passed, so I don't add an extra day of grievance to my siblings
 
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