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You can't really say this about everyone though. There are horrible mothers out there and just because they gave birth to their children doesn't mean they will automatically love them.
I identify with this to a certain extent, I have a fairly "male" brain and way of thinking about things.
So sorry for you, and yeah that's why i used 'if'. I don't believe everyone is affected by hormones in the same way. Most may be heavily affected by hormones, a little percentage of people aren't. I think i may be one of those people who's unaffected by hormones cuz frankly i'm stoic af. I grew up in an abusive household and i didn't turn out to be agressive, i stare at people whenever they react irrationally. My parents used to scream at me and i'd just stood there, staring at them. I don't know why i turned out like this. But because of that and the fact i've never experienced period pain/PMS my whole life as a female, i think i'm just one of those people who aren't affected by hormones.
I am so sorry you're struggling and feeling this way. I don't personally feel that women are more emotional than men, I think a lot of this has to do with socialization personally. In my own opinion an unemotional logical man in a combat suit is probably a psychopath. My own process with my own trauma showed me that the only way is to feel, no matter how painful it is, and not feeling anything leads us to a very dark path. All humans feel, and those who don't had things done to them that made them feel it wasn't safe to feel, but then it can get so extreme that the lack of feeling causes people to not know right from wrong. I don't know. Also having feelings has also lead me to want to die lmao so yeah. Sending you love, I am so sorry you feel this way. Anyway you want to exist and live your life is valid. I do think women are just as logical than men if not more. I notice that men are very reactive and aggressive personally.
I feel this way all the time. I am a lesbian and it is excruciatingly lonely when you hate yourself and can't provide like a man does. I am inferior to men actually.
