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Sweetfa
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- Feb 17, 2020
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I feel like nothing could hurt anymore than it already does though, my hypnotherapist has been coming over free of charge ever since, trying to help, and even he can't seem to get through to me.
Aside from feeling like your therapist should fix what he broke, is there another reason why you feel like you need to go back to him?I feel like nothing could hurt anymore than it already does though, my hypnotherapist has been coming over free of charge ever since, trying to help, and even he can't seem to get through to me.
My therapist was sexually inappropriate in an email, triggered me really badly, I've spent a month trying to get him to hold his hands up that it was wrong so we could move past it, he gaslighted me for a month and then reduced our sessions like its my fault, told me how I've fucked HIS head up and referred to me like a black widow then told me if I don't trust him I can fire him, then cancelled our last session, sent my money back and told me to never contact him again. I tried to kill myself on 18th with insulin but failed, refused hospital treatment and as a result mental health team were threatening to section me. My GP put a stop to me being sectioned but I can't stop thinking about and crying about my therapist. For a long time we were way over the boundaries with many emails outside of sessions and a level of intimacy that was beyond what a therapist should have with a client but my own fault, nothing sexual happened between us but that email he sent was so triggering, elicit, graphicly instructing me to touch myself.
I am meant to be having assisted suicide in Switzerland at the end of next year but I don't want to wait that long, I can't survive a year without him. I don't know what to do. It hurts so much and on top of everything else I'm going through in my life.. I just can't do it.
I had told him I needed him to help me stay stable for another year, so I get everything I need to do, before I go to dignitas next year, done. I feel like I can't keep myself alive that long without his help. He had gone to his supervisory team about it and agreed to recontract for another year, just before all this happened. Prior to this, he had been the best therapist I ever had, I had made more progress, done more work, talked about things I had never talked about in my 42 years of life, things I can never utter from my mouth again to someone else. I don't trust anyone, never have, it took a year of intense therapy for my to finally trust him that much, I never looked in his eyes and finally agreed I would, and tried, briefly, but even that was an accomplishment, I felt that I had the most intimate and attached relationship with him than I was ever able to have, my psychological assessment by other psychologists states that even in intimate relationships I remain detached, and this is true, my whole life, with everybody, I just can't attach this way again, this was the only time I have been able to and now it's all fucked up, that's why this hurts as much as it does. I had told him I wanted to try to remove the walls and detachment and have that experience before I died, just once, and he made that possible for me and then.. Blahhhh.. Nothing could be more fucked up than this!
I have sent the attached email to my therapist. My heart is pounding and I'm shaking
He owns his own private practice that he runs from home. His website says closed permantlyMaybe someone else has reported him for doing the same to them. If you report him that will help their case & yours. The more complaints that are made, the more likely something will be done to stop him.
edit: your last post came through as I was writing this.
I understand. Of course you don't want to go through another investigation & all it involves.
I'm glad you've told your GP & hypnotherapist so you have some support irl as well as here.
edit 2: It appears that the place has closed, not the therapist.