NSFW Ex saying im bad at sex

[IHurtTheOneILove]

My ex was texting me and was shitting on me for being bad at sex. I'm not gonna lie and act like I was great but I feel like I'm okay. It stings knowing I'll never have the opportunity to grow sexually with them further down the road but I guess I have more knowledge if I survive long enough to have another partner.

Also for better or for worse now I feel like I can't CTB anymore bcus I want to prove I'm good at sex with someone else. Idk how sound that logic is but I can't CTB and be bad at sex lmao.

 

[Life_and_Death]

theyre the problem not you. they shouldnt have ever said that
and even if its "true" its subjective, i was with someone "without much experience" and it was the best, but thats because of an emotional connection.
you shouldnt hurt yourself to prove a douchebag wrong

 

[Deleted member 65988]

Nothing like an ex that beats you while you're down by saying you were bad at something they could've helped you get better at. you don't need to prove anything. there's no need to do that just to make a point to them.

 

[Groundhog_Day]

Pretty sure they are lashing out to try and hurt you. They may not even believe what they are saying.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

Pretty sure they are lashing out to try and hurt you. There may not even believe what they are saying.

That tends to be where words like this come from.

 

[Morte]

if the purpose of sex is to achieve pleasure, then why should you blame yourself for your partner not enjoying it? that would be more of their fault than yours. Assuming you like it and they didn't, the one who was bad at sex was your partner, not you.

 

[F@#$]

Bad at sex? What the fuck does that even mean?

 

[IHurtTheOneILove]

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Pretty sure they are lashing out to try and hurt you. They may not even believe what they are saying.

i mean not entirely, like sex was always an issue with us. They had been lying to me abt them cumming for like 7 months of us dating. Then when i found out, they got embarrassed and said that we could work on it together and we slowly worked on it but ya idk I wasn't necessarily the best. At least I know how to eat pussy now tho so there's that!!!!

 

[Worndown]

That is a common tactic to tear you down. And easy shot to take.

 

[IHurtTheOneILove]

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Bad at sex? What the fuck does that even mean?

Like I was never consistent at being able to get them to finish. They blamed it on childhood trauma when we were together but now that we're apart they're saying I was just bad so idk what to believe lol

 

[Deleted member 65988]

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Like I was never consistent at being able to get them to finish. They blamed it on childhood trauma when we were together but now that we're apart they're saying I was just bad so idk what to believe lol

So first it was childhood trauma but now it' was your fault all along, honestly OP your ex did not respect you enough to tell you the truth from what I see. I also think your ex is trying to hurt you by saying all of this.

 

[SexyIncél]

Also for better or for worse now I feel like I can't CTB anymore bcus I want to prove I'm good at sex with someone else. Idk how sound that logic is but I can't CTB and be bad at sex lmao.

Excellent. Now you got some fire in you

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