bov
Arcanist
- Aug 26, 2020
- 405
Feels like every day someone announces their imminent CTB and tho I've never interacted with the person directly I'm always tempted to PM an invitation to talk.
I wouldn't explicitly encourage them to reconsider but I'd be lying if I said that wouldn't be on my mind.
I'm still new here and still iffy on the mores. If you were in their place, most likely you wouldn't even check your PMs. But if you did, would you find this insulting or irksome?
I'm of two minds.
Sometimes I think this forum is first and foremost a safe space from those kinds of encouragements; other times I think it's 1st and foremost a space for whatever erstwhile taboo convos about suicide might enhance users' "wellbeing."
Then I think what everyone here's probably thought about 'to death': what even is well-being? I also think who tf takes a website's purpose into consideration when messaging a suicidal person? [Sure, tell me I don't belong here then, I get it].
S/o to anyone who thinks it's funny to ask a question about etiquette on a suicide website, thanks to whoever replies, and sry in advance if this triggers a redundant debate.
I wouldn't explicitly encourage them to reconsider but I'd be lying if I said that wouldn't be on my mind.
I'm still new here and still iffy on the mores. If you were in their place, most likely you wouldn't even check your PMs. But if you did, would you find this insulting or irksome?
I'm of two minds.
Sometimes I think this forum is first and foremost a safe space from those kinds of encouragements; other times I think it's 1st and foremost a space for whatever erstwhile taboo convos about suicide might enhance users' "wellbeing."
Then I think what everyone here's probably thought about 'to death': what even is well-being? I also think who tf takes a website's purpose into consideration when messaging a suicidal person? [Sure, tell me I don't belong here then, I get it].
S/o to anyone who thinks it's funny to ask a question about etiquette on a suicide website, thanks to whoever replies, and sry in advance if this triggers a redundant debate.