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SailorBlue

SailorBlue

Anxious mess
Jun 21, 2025
47
I've been doing some soul-searching lately and realized that my suicidal thoughts are almost entirely related to having social responsibilities.

What really worries me is having to work to create wealth, having strict deadlines, administrative obligations, and forced interactions with others.

I know it's impossible to live completely outside of society like a hermit, unless you're very rich and/or very resourceful, which I'm not. I'll never be able to no longer depend on medicine, for example.

I'd still like your opinions. Do you think that escaping adult responsibilities would ease the suffering or, on the contrary, aggravate it?

Do you have any tips for making adult life less horrible?
 
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WeepingWorm

WeepingWorm

nothing
Jun 30, 2025
31
Living in the world does suck and it's not for everyone. I don't really like it either. Technically, you could live outside of society, as a monk for example, or something less radical like by getting your income from farming or things related to nature. People gotta work at distant outposts, lighthouses, forested areas, etc. Could be something that interests you.
 
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Merocero

Merocero

Member
Jul 29, 2025
10
oh escaping work etc would definitely help me personally, i feel so much better when im unemployed.. but thats not an option long term so im stuck in a cycle of depression cause of work
 
GhostInTheMachine

GhostInTheMachine

Safeguard
Nov 5, 2023
404
It eases the suffering for sure. Social responsibilities by themselves don't make me suicidal, but they definitely exacerbate the issue. Just letting go of having to deal with anybody else's bullshit is a nice reprieve.
 

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