"Don't blame yourself, they were going to do it anyway. If anything they did this to you and you should be mad at them"

[FinalHour]

The people directly responsible for ruining my psyche and ruining my life (family) will be told they had nothing to do with my suicide ,to not feel any guilt and it was a selfish choice I made and that I "did this" to them.

It's a very recurrent comment I see on posts of people who lost a family member to suicide. While I understand the family member needs to let go in order to move on with life and that feeling guilt won't help with that, it's still a load of bullshit.

The idea that the people that caused you so much continuous pain and irreparable damage to your life and livelihood without the slightest care in the world that you ended up deciding to ctb.....that these people should be angry at you for daring to ctb instead of simply suffering in silence to keep them comfortable...is puke inducing.
Hell, if vengeful spirits existed they shouldn't be surprised if one started haunting them

 

[CrawlingInMySkin]

I completely agree, mate. It's bullshit that people say that. It's heartless. I'm truly sorry about your situation with your family, they sound horrible. Those who cause suffering should suffer themselves. And who knows, maybe you will get to haunt them on some ghost type shit when you die.