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winechateu

winechateu

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Dec 4, 2020
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i feel like when people choose when they want to get married, the date is special

how about for your circumstances?

a date that i chose reflects the date when i was born, i dont know thought it was cool looking.

does your date to leave this world have any significant reasoning behind it?
 
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Miss_Takes

Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Dec 4, 2020
452
i feel like when people choose when they want to get married, the date is special

how about for your circumstances?

a date that i chose reflects the date when i was born, i dont know thought it was cool looking.

does your date to leave this world have any significant reasoning behind it?
Ive chosen my birthday. The beginning and the end ... no sense people remembering on more than one day.
 
BlackCatTalk

BlackCatTalk

StrayCat
Apr 28, 2019
198
The first was going to be the weekend before my birthday, now I have two, the last will be the day that the person I love decided to take the bus without me.
 
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Backwoodsqueer

Backwoodsqueer

Member
May 27, 2019
57
Ive chosen my birthday. The beginning and the end ... no sense people remembering on more than one day.
I've chosen the same. At least they'll only have one day to mourn.

Although, now that I think about it, I say "they" like anyone will actually care anyway.
 
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summers

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Nov 4, 2020
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Although, now that I think about it, I say "they" like anyone will actually care anyway.
You'd be surprised. I recently ran into a former student from over 12 years ago in a store. He thanked me for taking the time to help him learn, and the advice I gave him. He said it helped him get his life on track.

Maybe he won't know when I ctb, but don't think you haven't had a positive impact on some people's lives.
 
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greycatsmiles

Hi
Dec 4, 2020
10
i feel like when people choose when they want to get married, the date is special

how about for your circumstances?

a date that i chose reflects the date when i was born, i dont know thought it was cool looking.

does your date to leave this world have any significant reasoning behind it?
[/QUO It depends on that as well those I lov who caught the bus
 
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mimiopo22

mimiopo22

Specialist
Dec 4, 2020
380
I wish it had it because I chose the day of the anniversary of my fall, of my retirement from the scene, but I don't know if I can make it in time.
 
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winechateu

winechateu

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Dec 4, 2020
33
For me, it's a little further out. More of a time frame than a specific date. I know this may sound stupid, but it has to do with the weather/season.
thats not stupid at all. weather and season can be symbolic and comforting:)
 
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Kat!

Elementalist
Sep 30, 2020
838
I would do it on my birthday too but that would be the biggest adjustment of emotions for my family lol.
One moment we're partying or something and then they find my body :hihi:
I love your reasoning, and I find that very important.
 
Red

Red

Warlock
Apr 10, 2019
744
Birthday seems the least selfish day to do it on- that day was mine anyway. Consideration of days in the meantime, should birthday be too far away or inconvenient, always mindful of other special days, celebrations n birthdays etc...

I think that's why many, at this time of year, are thinking of dates in the new year, it being too close to Xmas to not ruin that time of year for anyone that cares.

many of us almost certain that nobody would actually care, but wary in case of messing up but one other person's life after we are gone...

oh the irony :ahhha: :pfff:
 
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Isadeth

Isadeth

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Jun 12, 2020
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I don't have a date in mind. But if I had to choose a time of year I would choose autumn.
 
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Adamsnolife

Adamsnolife

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May 5, 2020
393
I would wait until.y next birthday but don't want to wait another 10 months. Hopefully by late Jan to march will be my target to ctb
 
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