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BlackNugget

BlackNugget

my boyfriend is the only reason
Jun 30, 2026
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I feel like a big reason for me being unable to type much on here is due to the notion of having an "identity" attached to it, it makes me care too much about the fact that nobody would actually care. I want a means to just scream into the void, maybe; at least then I won't get extreme anxiety typing it out.

I wish this site had an anon subforum where only admins/mods could check who posts what for obvious reasons.

Does anyone else get extreme anxiety just using this site?
 
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webb&flow

webb&flow

dum spiro spero—take it as it comes
Nov 30, 2024
716
<3 I think that people here will seriously relate to the struggles you express, and, well, ya never know, who knows, maybe someone will feel validated and care deeply about what you write here :).

If you ever want someone to vent to privately, I offer my correspondence <3 but of course no pressure 🤗.

Identity can be rough. Having people whom we are cool with, and who are cool with us, eases this <3.
 
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Aflame5926

Aflame5926

le tired
Apr 3, 2026
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how about make a new account and then delete it when you are finished? not sure if its against TOS tho
 
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troubled_puppet

she/her
Apr 29, 2026
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I relate big time. I also wish there was just an anonymous vent space. I have crippling anxiety a lot. I rarely check forum threads back, and i feel guilty about it sometimes.

(Reacts i wasn't sure about, but i ended up liking them and they cheered me up.)

i don't know if there's a different platform where people can vent anonymously :(
I hope somebody has an answer, because that would be cool.
 
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otomedissection

Member
Jun 19, 2026
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The original website sadly isn't around anymore, but I always liked Emotional Baggage Check. You could anonymously vent into the void without needing an account and sometimes another anonymous person would "check" it for you if you chose to add an email to your message. That is, they would read your vent and reply to it with words of support and the website would send the response to your email. I'm sure there are other sites out there that have used this same system, so I'd love to know if you find something similar!
 
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