Does anyone here have kids?

[Cherrypea]

I have an 8 year old and a 19 year old. I would leave my eldest but the little one is holding me back, she needs her mum. But I hate it. Please don't heap criticism on these posts, a mother with young kids wanting to ctb. Where else can we bare our souls?

 

[FewerMoats]

I can't reply to everyone right now but I appreciate all of the responses. I didn't post to have people condone it. I literally just wanted to hear from people who can relate and received judgement. Super.

I feel like living for the kids was what I was doing before but the addition of being a caregiver to a disabled spouse, during a pandemic, while also homeschooling the kids is just too much. My BPD already makes everything so fucking hard I don't t know how I can possibly do this.

 

[Cherrypea]

I can't reply to everyone right now but I appreciate all of the responses. I didn't post to have people condone it. I literally just wanted to hear from people who can relate and received judgement. Super.

I feel like living for the kids was what I was doing before but the addition of being a caregiver to a disabled spouse, during a pandemic, while also homeschooling the kids is just too much. My BPD already makes everything so fucking hard I don't t know how I can possibly do this.

I was actually thinking earlier it'd be nice to have a little group for mums if anyone is interested? Although I don't know how we'd set it up x

 

[FewerMoats]

I was actually thinking earlier it'd be nice to have a little group for mums if anyone is interested? Although I don't know how we'd set it up x

That would be nice and I also don't know how to set it up.

 

[Sinkinshyp]

I was actually thinking earlier it'd be nice to have a little group for mums if anyone is interested? Although I don't know how we'd set it up x

I think thats a fantastic idea. Maybe message the folks who run the group? I don't know much about forums or how they work. Maybe they can set up a main posting to ask how many moms are here and would be interested in a mom page?

 

[Ghost2211]

I was actually thinking earlier it'd be nice to have a little group for mums if anyone is interested? Although I don't know how we'd set it up x

That's a wonderful idea.

 

[Adamsnolife]

I don't have any children. Did wish I'd have some when I was younger but in this state where I doubt if live much longer , unlikely that I'll have them now

 

[Sinkinshyp]

I was actually thinking earlier it'd be nice to have a little group for mums if anyone is interested? Although I don't know how we'd set it up x

I just thought of something. The Witch's Lament made a post maybe she can tell you how she did it. It has a yes or no question survey. Since it was your idea you should make a post like she did. Label it MOMS - something so people know it's safe for us without judgement. Have that survey- do you want a mom only page yes or no. If we get enough yes's maybe the mods? gm's? admins? not sure what they are called on a forum will make a mom only page.

 

[Cherrypea]

I just thought of something. The Witch's Lament made a post maybe she can tell you how she did it. It has a yes or no question survey. Since it was your idea you should make a post like she did. Label it MOMS - something so people know it's safe for us without judgement. Have that survey- do you want a mom only page yes or no. If we get enough yes's maybe the mods? gm's? admins? not sure what they are called on a forum will make a mom only page.

Good idea. I messaged admin this morning with the general question. Took me ages to work out how to do that so I'll look later to see if I can work out the survey! Hope you are doing not too crap today x

 

[Sinkinshyp]

Good idea. I messaged admin this morning with the general question. Took me ages to work out how to do that so I'll look later to see if I can work out the survey! Hope you are doing not too crap today x

Awesome! It's really hard on moms when we feel this way. To have other moms to relate with us and give support to eachother would be so wonderful. I woke up..it's crappy today yet since I ordered my SN it's been less crappy to exist. Thank you. I hope you are feeling ok today. I hope you can get that page set up for moms, it's needed for sure.

 

[Cherrypea]

Awesome! It's really hard on moms when we feel this way. To have other moms to relate with us and give support to eachother would be so wonderful. I woke up..it's crappy today yet since I ordered my SN it's been less crappy to exist. Thank you. I hope you are feeling ok today. I hope you can get that page set up for moms, it's needed for sure.

Its calming to know its there I guess. I'm to scared to order SN. I have the plan but with holding the means for now. Should be a lovely day, sun's out, LO at school but you know, pains still there.

 

[Sinkinshyp]

Its calming to know its there I guess. I'm to scared to order SN. I have the plan but with holding the means for now. Should be a lovely day, sun's out, LO at school but you know, pains still there.

My family moved in with me. My mom, bro, sis in law and 3 nephews. When I ordered my SN tuesday my mom met me at the bathroom door - she wanted a shower and I had to use bathroom lol I burst out laughing I couldn't hold it in. She said, you're laughing? whats going on? I pointed up and jumped up and down laughing saying I'm going I'm going... my older son died in a car accident and my plan is to see him in my afterlife. I haven't smiled or laughed in 3 years it was a good feeling to know it's coming. The day he left is hard for my family so I plan to go on that same day October 13. I don't know what LO is I can only assume your child/children. I'm sorry you have pain. I wish I could suck up everyones pain so they can enjoy a nice lovely life and take all that pain with me when I go so noone has to feel it.