Discussion Does anyone have any sexual fetishes?

[TessB]

Thanks to this thread I have learnt so much about myself: maybe there's a register i'm gonna have to fill out!!! It started when I wanted to only play with Barbie's ken - blonde and beautiful.

Agalmatophilia
(from the Greek agalma 'statue', and -philia φιλία = love) is a paraphilia involving sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object.
And yes, baby - before you name & shame me - that includes those manga figures WE pay a fortune for!!

Disclaimer: I wouldn't want to have sex with any of them (someone was caught shagging the Venus de Milo, don't you know!) but ever since I was a kid I've found them erotically enticing.
(I've not included Jesus' Crucifixion cos I still want some friends)

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1st row:
Ron Mueck: 'boy 1999' (Venice Biennale)
Shota Aizawa (if only he were a real man...!)
Unknown
'Angel of Grief'
St Sebastian (my favourite saint for all the 'wrong' reasons?!)
Green tara (I think) one of the Dakini's maybe
My lonely Cowboy Lifesize Takashi Murakami
Menelaos and Patroklos (wish you could see his curly hair!)

2nd row:
Barberini Faun or Drunken Satyr*
Rias Gremory Sexy Anime High School
Athlete wrestling with Python (based on Frederic Leighton) Art Deco (grrr!)
Morrigan! (fkn love her - have 5 different 1s!)
Billy & Carlos (gay monstrously anatomically correct toys dolls)
Bome figure (taken at exhibition; no metadata)
Banksy (taken in Rome -of all places! hectically un-Catholic)

if you into Satyrs and fauns - there's loads more (maybe a bit 'inappropriate' for some)
Takashi Murakami: asian pop art master!!! (Google him he's awesome)

ps: wander what my S&LAA councillor would think of me 'dragging the darkness into the light'
oh I'm having so much fun: next look out for the creatures, albinism, redhead and freckles thing
(you have been warned) hope i'm not the only weirdo here??????!!!

I have red hair and freckles is liking someone who has those considered a fetish nowadays?????

 

[TriggerHappy]

I have red hair and freckles is liking someone who has those considered a fetish nowadays?????

damn! (absolutely) :: you've just made my already complicated life that little more complicated:
you gotta know you are a 'type' right? (even though you are much more than just that I'm sure)
I'm being really nice :: I'm warning you to look out for that strange creepy clown (yes another fetish!) that has an evil glint in the corner of their eye, that wry crease in the corner of their mouth cos maybe there's space for you in their freezer... ha! ha!)
the question is: would you rather be fetish-ed than objectified?

 

[TessB]

damn! (absolutely) :: you've just made my already complicated life that little more complicated:
you gotta know you are a 'type' right? (even though you are much more than just that I'm sure)
I'm being really nice :: I'm warning you to look out for that strange creepy clown (yes another fetish!) that has an evil glint in the corner of their eye, that wry crease in the corner of their mouth cos maybe there's space for you in their freezer... ha! ha!)
the question is: would you rather be fetish-ed than objectified?

Clowns? Really???
I guess I've met people that go all funny over red hair. I don't really understand why? Maybe because it's less common? My ex husband used to read a lot of fantasy novels and he said all the heroines were ginger. I think being a 'type' is at least some pay off for being carrot top, ginger ninja, ginger nut, freckle face, Duracell battery for years at school

damn! (absolutely) :: you've just made my already complicated life that little more complicated:
you gotta know you are a 'type' right? (even though you are much more than just that I'm sure)
I'm being really nice :: I'm warning you to look out for that strange creepy clown (yes another fetish!) that has an evil glint in the corner of their eye, that wry crease in the corner of their mouth cos maybe there's space for you in their freezer... ha! ha!)
the question is: would you rather be fetish-ed than objectified?

What's the difference?

 

[NeverSatisfied]

I have red hair and freckles is liking someone who has those considered a fetish nowadays?????

I don't fetishize people with red hair rather wonder what crazy shit they're into and admire their beauty.

What's the difference?

I think what I do is more objectification because my mind automatically goes to (all red heads are freaks) which can be degrading someone based on a single attribute (though in my mind I don't see being freaky as degrading but some people def do) but you don't have to be sexually attracted to something for your thoughts/ actions to be objectifying. A fetish is when someone takes an abnormal amount of sexual desire/ pleasure from red heads.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I have a preference for blondes but I don't consider that a fetish either, my real favorite hair color is blue.

 

[NeverSatisfied]

@Dr Iron Arc I've been watching a lot of true crime lately...is it a murder fetish or one of those things where people go on the deep web and watch someone "sexually" kill someone? ...the mind's gonna wonder man

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

@Dr Iron Arc I've been watching a lot of true crime lately...is it a murder fetish or one of those things where people go on the deep web and watch someone "sexually" kill someone? ...the mind's gonna wonder man

No. I don't play Minecraft.

 

[summers]

I like to pop a cialis and viagra and fuck until my dick gets sore. Not a fetish, but definitely a fun couple hours. You can get either very easily without a prescription. Pm/dm me if you want sources.

 

[TessB]

No. I don't play Minecraft.

Klismaphilia, spectrophilia, being humialted, degraded, treated like a human puppy dog, treated like an adult baby, I had a friend once who was into being told he wasn't allowed to do a wee when he was literally bursting.. don't know the name of that fetish though.

 

[summers]

Klismaphilia, spectrophilia, being humialted, degraded, treated like a human puppy dog, treated like an adult baby, I had a friend once who was into being told he wasn't allowed to do a wee when he was literally bursting.. don't know the name of that fetish though.

I held off taking a piss too long while on a road trip and wound up with a bladder infection haha. I was waiting until the car needed gas. That was stupid.

 

[Lmd]

No. I don't play Minecraft.

I got it.

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[Unlucked]

I dont know if this counts as a "fetish" but having a guy unravels your emotional trauma and doesn't attempt any sexual advances turns me on, like hhhhh gentlemen wholesome vibes are just too good. That, and if I have a crush on a guy the smell of that person mixed in with cologne or deoderant is HHHHH. It probably has to do with the fact that any guy who behaves as a reliable person emotionally is irresistible. Probably cos i have mad daddy issues. Even then though it's not like a "horny" feeling. It's more of a desire to be close to said person/held. I dont really feel the more physical aspects of lust anymore, sometimes I wonder if im asexual.

 

[summers]

I dont know if this counts as a "fetish" but having a guy unravels your emotional trauma and doesn't attempt any sexual advances turns me on, like hhhhh gentlemen wholesome vibes are just too good. That, and if I have a crush on a guy the smell of that person mixed in with cologne or deoderant is HHHHH. It probably has to do with the fact that any guy who behaves as a reliable person emotionally is irresistible. Probably cos i have mad daddy issues. Even then though it's not like a "horny" feeling. It's more of a desire to be close to said person/held. I dont really feel the more physical aspects of lust anymore, sometimes I wonder if im asexual.

I understand. The whole hook up scene does get a little stale after a while. It's nice to actually get to know someone. Not saying I won't hook up, I very rarely make the first move. A lot of the time, I won't even talk about sex until the other person does.

 

[TessB]

Ok just because we are sharing and just so be really honest to encourage @Dr Iron Arc to do the same I'll admit I have a weird thing I'm really into.. which is older women who are bossy/ in control but in specific career types.. like an older woman barrister in the wig thing and older female politicians. Basically mature women who are authoritative and make speeches and sort of know-it-alls. I find them so hot. I had a poster of one particular woman mp on my wall as a teenager. No I'm not joking. I have this fantasy that I'm their maid cleaning their office and I get it all wrong and they have to spank me over their desk because I'm a bad girl.
@Dr Iron Arc your turn.

 

[Mentalmick]

Ok just because we are sharing and just so be really honest to encourage @Dr Iron Arc to do the same I'll admit I have a weird thing I'm really into.. which is older women who are bossy/ in control but in specific career types.. like an older woman barrister in the wig thing and older female politicians. Basically mature women who are authoritative and make speeches and sort of know-it-alls. I find them so hot. I had a poster of one particular woman mp on my wall as a teenager. No I'm not joking. I have this fantasy that I'm their maid cleaning their office and I get it all wrong and they have to spank me over their desk because I'm a bad girl.
@Dr Iron Arc your turn.

Although not exactly the same, I've got a massive crush on Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil 8. She's tall (nine foot six), domineering, powerful, vampiric, middle aged and beautiful (well, I think). Yes she certainly is.

 

[summers]

Although not exactly the same, I've got a massive crush on Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil 8. She's tall (nine foot six), domineering, powerful, vampiric, middle aged and beautiful (well, I think). Yes she certainly is.
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Real is always better...

 

[Mentalmick]

Real is always better...
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Google lens to the rescue. Ashley Costello I take it? Aha, very vampiric and beautiful. While no one can replace the Lady, she comes pretty close. That axe would have to go though.

 

[summers]

Google lens to the rescue. Ashley Costello I take it? Aha, very vampiric and beautiful. While no one can replace the Lady, she comes pretty close. That axe would have to go though.

New Year's Day is actually a decent band. And she is super hot.

 

[signifying nothing]

I'll admit I have a weird thing I'm really into.. which is older women who are bossy/ in control

Mmm, yeah, I think I'm similar. Just watching Helen Mirren in Prime Suspect and she's definitely a candidate.

 

[TriggerHappy]

I don't fetishize people with red hair rather wonder what crazy shit they're into and admire their beauty.


I think what I do is more objectification because my mind automatically goes to (all red heads are freaks) which can be degrading someone based on a single attribute (though in my mind I don't see being freaky as degrading but some people def do) but you don't have to be sexually attracted to something for your thoughts/ actions to be objectifying. A fetish is when someone takes an abnormal amount of sexual desire/ pleasure from red heads.

'...all redheads are freaks' - strange you say that: I think because they're alienated / ostracised from toddlers etc they grow up feeling different (that; like being gay etc contributes to being different / atypical / 'alien' construct (Inner Guide Meditation Astrology Book) so that's why they're different. My ex had mad curly red hair / the bluest eyes and freckles everywhere (even on his lips!) irreverently insane. Wierd thing is: I wasn't ever attracted to redheads etc but we swam against each other for nationals and when i saw the freckles i just had to count each & every one! nyeh. nyeh. i moved to Europe to study we drifted apart & he ctb'd (building jump). is a mystery to me why...

Ok just because we are sharing and just so be really honest to encourage @Dr Iron Arc to do the same I'll admit I have a weird thing I'm really into.. which is older women who are bossy/ in control but in specific career types.. like an older woman barrister in the wig thing and older female politicians. Basically mature women who are authoritative and make speeches and sort of know-it-alls. I find them so hot. I had a poster of one particular woman mp on my wall as a teenager. No I'm not joking. I have this fantasy that I'm their maid cleaning their office and I get it all wrong and they have to spank me over their desk because I'm a bad girl.
@Dr Iron Arc your turn.

no, I get it I worked for a woman who ran an ad agency /magazine i worked for: had this florence & the machine / tori amos aestheitc but was really tough - & her partner was like the woman from roxette (yeah - power couple!)
maybe as we evolve we learn everyone is a beautiful powerful supermodel in their own right! (work on various women's rights campaigns / against gender violence etc) so it's an interest.


.... will definitely help me get over my fear of horses!?
maybe this is why my new avatar is designed so fkn PINK! ha ha ha

 

[Mentalmick]

'...all redheads are freaks' - strange you say that: I think because they're alienated / ostracised from toddlers etc they grow up feeling different (that; like being gay etc contributes to being different / atypical / 'alien' construct (Inner Guide Meditation Astrology Book) so that's why they're different. My ex had mad curly red hair / the bluest eyes and freckles everywhere (even on his lips!) irreverently insane. Wierd thing is: I wasn't ever attracted to redheads etc but we swam against each other for nationals and when i saw the freckles i just had to count each & every one! nyeh. nyeh. i moved to Europe to study we drifted apart & he ctb'd (building jump). is a mystery to me why...

That was never a thing here in Scotland, there were so many people with red/ginger hair and freckles it wasn't given a second thought.

 

[TessB]

Although not exactly the same, I've got a massive crush on Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil 8. She's tall (nine foot six), domineering, powerful, vampiric, middle aged and beautiful (well, I think). Yes she certainly is.
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But if we are talking about hot resident evil girls it has to be Jill from the RS3 remake.

 

[TriggerHappy]

Although not exactly the same, I've got a massive crush on Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil 8. She's tall (nine foot six), domineering, powerful, vampiric, middle aged and beautiful (well, I think). Yes she certainly is.
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so maybe you like Eva Green*? (gotta watch Penny Dreafull) 1st pic
& what about Into the Badlands? (below)
* i've had this 'thing' for Diamanda Galas (looks a bit like eva but with dark temprament & 8 octave voice to match) have her music videos in the megathread 9ab acquired taste - be warned!)




enjoy.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I got it.

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While I love Lucina, she's hardly a fetish and as I said before I don't see cosplaying as a fetish either unless some other dynamic is added to it.

Ok just because we are sharing and just so be really honest to encourage @Dr Iron Arc to do the same I'll admit I have a weird thing I'm really into.. which is older women who are bossy/ in control but in specific career types.. like an older woman barrister in the wig thing and older female politicians. Basically mature women who are authoritative and make speeches and sort of know-it-alls. I find them so hot. I had a poster of one particular woman mp on my wall as a teenager. No I'm not joking. I have this fantasy that I'm their maid cleaning their office and I get it all wrong and they have to spank me over their desk because I'm a bad girl.
@Dr Iron Arc your turn.

I like older women too, but this wasn't what I was talking about either.

Although not exactly the same, I've got a massive crush on Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil 8. She's tall (nine foot six), domineering, powerful, vampiric, middle aged and beautiful (well, I think). Yes she certainly is.
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I've never even played a Resident Evil game and she does do it for me but this wasn't what I'm hiding either.

Starting to realize I have more kinks than just the one I'm hiding.

 

[TriggerHappy]

But if we are talking about hot resident evil girls it has to be Jill from the RS3 remake.

does manga count?!
me myself I think Morrigan is beyond wildest imagination ( you've seen her pic in my toy fetish section - I'm an unwell puppy I am!
..i have a pair of them (in 1 she's wielding a whip & the other her wings are spread out wide...)

That was never a thing here in Scotland, there were so many people with red/ginger hair and freckles it wasn't given a second thought.

" never a thing here" by that you mean all Scots are insane, mental freaks, right?!!
i say that with much devotion & admiration:
love of my life was highlander - (still have his kilt.. and his undies (always take a pair from every boy /man I've had relationship with - my trophies (ok i'm no Dahmer, i'm vegan!)
:not ginger though (think curt cobain) another (underwear stealing) fetish comes to the surface. wow. i'm scaring myself - we haven't even got to Tom of Finland or hippy boys from the 70's yet:



little shorts:
Rocky Horror Picture Show / S&M Angels in Flash /Man from Atlantis...
then those American Footballer outfits with the lace up crotches: (!)

THINK WE ALL NEED A BIT OF DISCIPLINARY CORRECTION, HUH?!

@Dr Iron Arc I've been watching a lot of true crime lately...is it a murder fetish or one of those things where people go on the deep web and watch someone "sexually" kill someone? ...the mind's gonna wonder man

Ramirez & Dahmer?! - would gladly do their bidding:
as long as when the mess is done they kill me / eat me whatever
would be so disappointed if they wanted necro - would at least want sum hot memories before I go!!!
i blame American Horror Story. completely!!!
ps: how's the vintage bathing costume?! grrr....

Yes I'm into boots and s&m. But sadly been a while and no real desire anymore or anyone . But a few self inflicted blows to my back with my belt kinda sorts my head out.

Hi...
your open-ness inspires & enthuses! Ihave a couple of questions for you ( & others...)




I think it'd be interesting to find out if the BDSM crew like suspension?!
would y'all do suff movies??!

To quote
Pet Shop Boys:
"if you've got the inclination I've got the crime...!"
- It's a Sin

 

[Celerity]

Does cream pie count as a fetish? I legit prefer women to men, but the idea of a guy coming in my vagina hits in a good way.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Does cream pie count as a fetish? I legit prefer women to men, but the idea of a guy coming in my vagina hits in a good way.

It's seemingly a deranged fetish to many people here, because it's supposedly immoral when there's no contraception involved.

It's also surprisingly hard to find in the major porn industry, at least from some of the biggest stars.

 

[summers]

It's seemingly a deranged fetish to many people here, because it's supposedly immoral when there's no contraception involved.

It's also surprisingly hard to find in the major porn industry, at least from some of the biggest stars.

Idk, creampie and anal creampie are two categories on xhamster:

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Tons of videos, and not hard to find...

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Idk, creampie and anal creampie are two categories on xhamster:

Creampie Porn Videos: Cum Filled Pussy & Ass | xHamster

Unprotected sex leads to cumshots inside tight pussies and assholes in creampie porn. Semen drips from fucked holes after satisfying screwing at xHamster.

xhamster.com

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Check out free Anal Creampie porn videos on xHamster. Watch all Anal Creampie XXX vids right now!

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Tons of videos, and not hard to find...

The videos themselves aren't hard to find but I meant if you want to search for creampies from certain specific porn stars it can be harder to find unless that's their specialty because for most western movies, the guy just pulls out.

Japanese videos on the other hand almost always have at least one or two creampies but those are unfortunately censored for the most part.

Also on Xvideos I've seen lots of videos with the creampie tag that didn't have a creampie at all, or they included it because the guy came in her mouth which isn't the same. :(

 

[summers]

The videos themselves aren't hard to find but I meant if you want to search for creampies from certain specific porn stars it can be harder to find unless that's their specialty because for most western movies, the guy just pulls out.

Japanese videos on the other hand almost always have at least one or two creampies but those are unfortunately censored for the most part.

Haha, fuck it. I had a vasectomy, so I'll just make my own videos