My son passed away 7 months ago today. I miss him more than words can describe. I'm on the brink of losing everything I have due to depression. I have a way out. I've had issues crossing the line though. Do you think we meet our loved ones again? Do you think he was happy to see me coming then saddened when I failed?
DeathWish3301
Member
- May 15, 2024
- 77
Truth is none of us know what happens after death.
Perhaps all that matters is what we believe will happen as we cross the line.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Perhaps all that matters is what we believe will happen as we cross the line.
I'm sorry for your loss.
locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 7,256
Unfortunately no. I don't believe in anything after this, whatever this is. I do think this is good reason to be nicer to our friends and family, though, because once they're gone, they're gone.
Blue Elephant
Mage
- Sep 22, 2023
- 519
I don't even know what it means to be loved, it never happened to me, I was always alone.
I do agree with @locked*n*loaded though, I don't think there is anything after this. Not that there's anything wrong with it.
I do agree with @locked*n*loaded though, I don't think there is anything after this. Not that there's anything wrong with it.
I agree. Eternal rest would be better than this. I'm just not so sure what the being nice part was about. I feel like my son and I were nice to one another.
Blue Elephant
Mage
- Sep 22, 2023
- 519
@hazeleyes830 I don't think he meant anything about you, I think he meant something about himself or something in general. It's alright.
cosmic_traveler
Eternal Spirit Experiencing a Human Moment
- Dec 23, 2023
- 311
My guru teaches that death does not exist, only life.
Imagine we are both soap bubbles, we have different shapes, sizes, soap and water content, and we are each holding onto our own share of air.
This is the same with our bodies, we are comprised of exactly the same molecules but in different amounts and orchestration and we each hold onto our own share of life.
Now what happens when the soap bubbles pop?
Does the air inside of them go away?
No, it just becomes more air.
Then its not too hard to imagine that when our bodies can no longer contain our own share of life, that our life returns to the whole.
This body is not you, you would never claim "I am hand, foot, or heart" you claim them as your own.
This is MY hand, foot, and heart.
While your body belongs to you, you're only borrowing it.
The part that is "YOU", is your motivation, your ambition, your drive, its completely intangible.
When your body can no longer contain your life, you won't see anything, you will be everything, including your son.
If you wish to see your son, look to the people who respect and love him.
The impact that your son had on others will only end when they can no longer hold onto their life.
Humans are copy-cats, we emulate the people we love and distance ourselves from the behaviors of people we don't.
Sorry you are in so much pain. We wish you peace. Be well on your journey.
LaVieEnRose
Angelic
- Jul 23, 2022
- 4,253
I agree. Eternal rest would be better than this. I'm just not so sure what the being nice part was about. I feel like my son and I were nice
I'd probably feel that way if it was my mother. However, she is still alive. I wouldn't be sad if she had passed.
Raven2
Specialist
- Dec 1, 2022
- 359
I'm truly sorry for your loss and your situation. I think I believe we do see our loved ones after death but I think they wait for us patiently until it's our time to go. Whether or not that means now or later for you, is your choice. Until you meet again.
divinemistress36
Illuminated
- Jan 1, 2024
- 3,292
Nurses have reported that patients on hospice while dying have shouted out their loved ones names like they are coming to bring them home so I hope so
I remember studying that when I was in CNA training.
If I really thought that there was even the slightest chance that I'd get to see my dead girlfriend again, I would have CTB'ed 2 years ago, when I first got my Nitrogen Tank delivered
karmaisabitch
Mage
- Mar 25, 2024
- 570
That's not tru! All the religions in the world who lbeleive that we meet, you're coming with confident to say we don't. Maybe with evidence I will read it but I know I'm meeting my son again and next time I will be with him forever in heaven!
I feel like I'm letting him down by staying here.
karmaisabitch
Mage
- Mar 25, 2024
- 570
Yes we do! You gonna meet him in heaven he's waiting for you there! It's hard to comprehend life without my son too but the only thing I know for sure that we have after life another life where we meet our loved ones
I don't know how to keep going. He's my every thought.
karmaisabitch
Mage
- Mar 25, 2024
- 570
I know me too! My son was killed by his toxic friend I wish I can share his picture here so everyone can see how handsome he was and now he's gone in a heart beat! Trust me my friend your son is in heaven watching over you along with my son.. he's an angel now don't let anyone tells you otherwise. I can't tell you about the pain you're living it. I came here to look for methods to kms that's how bad it's with me
locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 7,256
You are free to believe whatever you want, EXACTLY the same way I am. I do NOT believe that we will ever see loved ones again. Just as you think my views are wrong, I think YOUR VIEWS are WRONG. Isn't it funny how that works?
I didn't say I disagree with your beliefs at all. I just didn't understand your being nice comment. My son and I were very nice to one another. Why wouldn't we have been?
karmaisabitch
Mage
- Mar 25, 2024
- 570
True! My mom was in ICU dying she was looking straight at someone and called my grandma name minutes before she took her last breathe
I
ts very sad actually!
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locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 7,256
I didn't even make a comment to you. My comment was directed at @karmaisabitch who quoted one of your comments and then added a textual comment to me.
I already said that everyone is free to believe whatever they want, AND that includes me. I'm sorry for you and anyone else who lost children. I understand that you want to see them again after you die. I don't believe you will. That is what I believe and my beliefs are as valid as yours are. I'm not going to get into a pissing match with you about whose beliefs are valid and whose beliefs are not. Believe whatever you want.
I am NOT the one who first attacked anyone elses beliefs. Someone attacked mine. I don't really care what you believe, just as I'm sure you don't care what I believe. But, I DIDN'T go quoting one of y'all's posts attacking what you believe. Y'all did that on my posting. Now, I am done with this "conversation". Have a nice life. Have a nice death.
illusive sweets
There’s not enough candy in the world, I need more
- May 16, 2024
- 14
I had a someone tell me that they think we end up where we want to be/ feel like we deserve to be when we die. Not sure if I believe It to a 100, but it's a beautiful way to see it so I tend to go with it. If you wanna reunite with your son after you've passed it's not impossible and I hope you'll be able to.
I like that theory. It's beautiful.
thedevilwithin
anima vestra
- Oct 4, 2023
- 163
so very sorry for your loss. that pain must be unbearable.
regarding your son, no one really knows. religious people will tell you as well as atheists what happens to us, but no one alive can tell us what happens after this. however, your son is at eternal peace and i think that's something to ponder on. we are energy in some sense so maybe in some other form you will be with your son after this.
i wish peace for you
regarding your son, no one really knows. religious people will tell you as well as atheists what happens to us, but no one alive can tell us what happens after this. however, your son is at eternal peace and i think that's something to ponder on. we are energy in some sense so maybe in some other form you will be with your son after this.
i wish peace for you
todiefor
Scrap that, nothing matters at all after all
- Jun 24, 2023
- 474
That's really beautiful way to see it I agree
. I agree with @BardBarrie that there is no way of knowing with 100% certainty what happens after we die, and perhaps from a spiritual point of view when we are still alive, what matters more is what we believe and what gives meaning and comfort to us.For me personally i don't believe there's anything after death, I couldn't really even if I tried, but I do wish I did, and I know if I did, it would bring me some comfort.
I'm truly really sorry for your loss
, I really hope u get to see your son again
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Sunshine
Experienced
- Jan 11, 2019
- 206
I think you will. I read so many cases from Hospice nurses or people who had Near Death experiences. There is no guarantee, but... from all the strange things that people experience... I believe there is a good chance.
