Do you think having a girlfriend/boyfriend while you just think about suicide is fair?

[Wellokthen]

I hate to make my girlfriend feel sad but I can't just stop self-harming and planning ways to die. I love her and I don't want her to suffer. Maybe I should just break up with her

 

[mathieu]

It might be better to break up if you're certain you will CTB. My ex wants to get back together but I'm saying no because I plan to die within the next few months.

 

[WhatIsMyLife]

You really should break up if you are determined to ctb. The hurt she would feel if you ctb while still being with her could scar her for life, and prevent her life from moving forward, and prevent any future relationships.

 

[Meowkin]

I hate to make my girlfriend feel sad but I can't just stop self-harming and planning ways to die. I love her and I don't want her to suffer. Maybe I should just break up with her

It's natural to not want to hurt someone you love. On the other hand, it's usually hard to give up our loved ones for various reasons. Whatever you choose, I'd see it as understandable and neither good nor bad.

 

[niloc]

Try having a girlfriend of 14 years that you now own a home together with.. I feel extremely bad for her, but I know that at some point I'll reach my breaking point. This is due to everything else in my life falling to shit and being burnt out in my career.

 

[KiraComplex]

my ex was in your situation. his solution was to be a piece of shit so id be happy about his death, but it completely backfired. i cant tell u what to do but i definitely can tell u what not to do :(
hope u find a solution soon.....

 

[TacoBell]

Try having a girlfriend of 14 years that you now own a home together with.. I feel extremely bad for her, but I know that at some point I'll reach my breaking point. This is due to everything else in my life falling to shit and being burnt out in my career.

Yikesssss, Good Luck Bro