death137

death137

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Also when choosing a method do you take into consideration if the method is dignified or not?

I don't mind if I die in undignified way but I'm curious to know what other ppl think.
 
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EternalDarkness

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Hanging is in some countries still used as a method to publicly execute criminals and it looks very painful but hanging is actually very dignified. You pass out quick and depending on the rope you shouldnt feel much pain before that happens. The actual problem is that it takes a lot to overcome the survival instinct. Not as much as jumping off a 100f bridge or jumping in front of a train but still a lot.
 
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Dignified or not would be a matter of personal opinion based on lot of factors .. Once you decide to ctb dignified or not does not matter .
 
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I couldn't care less as long as it gets the job done.
We all end up as a pile of rotting meat or ash anyway, there's no dignity to any of this.
 
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Even though I know it doesn't ultimately matter, yeah, I do think it's undignified. Can't help it. Even though I'll already be long gone, I don't want to be found hanging from the rafters like a fucking Christmas ornament with shit and piss streaming down my legs.
 
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i choose based on how long it'll take or how easy it is to do.

i don't think there's such a thing as a "dignified" death, since what could be considered "dignified" is subjective. we all die, whether it be from our own hands, someone else's, or by the will of nature. death is just death.
 
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I don't like hanging. Not because it might be painful but for various reasons. Your body will swell and turn blue with your tongue protruding, you will piss and shit yourself and then you will be found this way by relatives or family.
 
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Apparently men who hang themselves die with an erection.
 
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Ghost2211

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i don't think it's undignified. I can see how one can feel that way since hanging is historically used as public punishment or shaming. Regardless, who needs dignity when we are dead. I won't be there to know if they judge me.
 
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foxdie

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The idea of dignity is just a human construct. Death is universal, happening all around us right now. I just want to die
 
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Being forced to live is undignified in and of itself, so any way you choose to die is respectable.
 
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it matters for those left behind ONLY.....
 
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TotallyIsolated

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Surely dignity is dying in the manner of your own choosing.
 
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rt1989526

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Being alive in undignified.
 
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Apparently men who hang themselves die with an erection.

Looks like women receive a similar effect:
Death by hanging, whether an execution or a suicide, has been observed to affect the genitals of both men and women. In women, the labia and clitoris may become engorged and there may be a discharge of blood from the vagina.
 
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For some reason i'm more disgusted with the bodies left behind after a hanging more than any other, but i'm not really sure why
 
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IrRegularjoe

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Also when choosing a method do you take into consideration if the method is dignified or not?

I don't mind if I die in undignified way but I'm curious to know what other ppl think.
No. Quick and lethal makes the most sense. Whatever gets me out of this misery and without failure.
Reading some suicide books they claim to be for dignity although they have suicide methods that are normal. Pentobarbital being the hot seller of each book.

I live in Canada where the assisted dying laws are changing. With the exclusion of mental illness. However if you had a physical disability you could get an assisted death. I find no dignity in the new law here. It's bill c-7 if anyone interested.
 
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The moment where you're gasping for air and holding onto the rope and shaking is terrifying to me.
 
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Aap

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Death is, if not seldom, then often not dignified
 
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Wisdom3_1-9

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it matters for those left behind ONLY.....
This is actually why I've decided against hanging. I feel like the image of fundamental dead in such a position would be more traumatic to my family. It's still my backup plan, though, because of the speed, relative painlessness, and chance of success.
 
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TheQ22

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Apparently men who hang themselves die with an erection.
Your family finding you with a raging boner could potentially be more traumatic than finding you hanging.

How embarrassing.
 
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TheSoundofTime

TheSoundofTime

In time you will find peace...
Aug 9, 2020
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This is actually why I've decided against hanging. I feel like the image of fundamental dead in such a position would be more traumatic to my family. It's still my backup plan, though, because of the speed, relative painlessness, and chance of success.
I understand... is your family the ones to find you? If so then yeah, the view would be too much
 
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Just reading the after effects I think it would be undignified for the family. It's probably my chosen method now but if I go through with it I've been thinking of some steps to take to lessen the shock of finding me. Something to work out.
 
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I think most methods look outwardly pretty undignified, but if we're talking pain hanging can be okay.
 
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No. I think it's a very grotesque scene for whomever finds the body, but I don't see the method itself as undignified. The human body undergoes multiple "gross" processes after death regardless of the method of death
 
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Failedboy

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I suppose that no way of ctb including hanging is undignified. However it seems very simple and quick.
 
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