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Shu

Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
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Because I think it's absolutely bullshit. If anything this website has saved my life and helped me more than anything. I have made tons of friends received all sorts of support. Have been accepted for how I feel instead of being made feel like an an ot a freak.. The fact I am able to talk about how I feel openly without feeling like I am less than a human has helped me tremendously. The fact I can relate to people and receive support and compassion..


I would like fixthe26 to provide ONE example of someone being bullied for not committing suicide.
 
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Brianiskillingme

Brianiskillingme

Slowly Dying Inside
Jan 18, 2022
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They should tend to their own business and leave us alone.
 
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Shu

Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
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Let's provide an example of bullying. A. Calling people Psycho. B. I have seen them being transphobic in the past. Trying Trying make innocent people feel bad for bei g here when for some this is our only source of support without being judged. C. Doxxing innocent people and making sick jokes about them. I would post more tweets but I have been blocked by them so I can't access then now. There are tons of other examples.
If people come on here bullying they get banned REAL quick.
 
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Brianiskillingme

Brianiskillingme

Slowly Dying Inside
Jan 18, 2022
148
I have never seen anyone here bully anybody to ctb. Kelli Wilson doesnt know shit about how we are here.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
42,506
Its just pro life nonsense posted by irrational grieving people. For me personally that kind of stuff is best avoided. I cannot stand pro lifers. There is not much point trying to argue with that. These people will never see the truth no matter what is said.

I think that many pro lifers are delusional thinking that someone respecting the right to die means 'encouraging suicide', when in fact it is perfectly clear that it is the individuals decision to leave this world, no one is encouraged, suicide is seen as a personal choice and if someone chooses to live or die, their decision is respected either way. So do they want to force people to live against their wishes. That is cruel. The right to die is a human right and no one has any obligation to live. I think that to me pro life is really just pro suffering.
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ I'm............
Jul 1, 2020
7,031
You're the idiots bullying people to death or did you forget that? I see you're sweeping it under the rug and spreading lies. You have directly told people to kill themselves and shit so SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP. I'd say before you look like an idiot but it's already too late. We might as well add a wig and big red nose. How 'bout new shoes, size 30?? Oh and some nice polka dot overalls.
 
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pthnrdnojvsc

pthnrdnojvsc

Extreme Pain is much worse than people know
Aug 12, 2019
3,322
Some things i'd like to ask pro-lifers. What is the meaning of life? What is the objective meaning of life? I think there is none life is meaningless

FYi to pro-lifers. Everyone dies . in 130 years every human alive now will be dead all 7 billion. in 500 years no one will remember nor care what fixthe26 was. imo in 1000 years super Artificial intelligence won't care that humans existed at all.

Life is suffering. Why is suffering acceptable for what reason?
 
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ConstantPain

Sorry but cats are so much better than people
Jun 9, 2022
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This website is the first place in my whole life (45 years) that I can be completely honest and genuinely myself. The support has been incredible and for me, this community has inspired me and provided acceptance. I've been inpatient (not in a long time at least), have tried tons of antidepressants, gone to plenty of therapists, stayed in outpatient treatment with 1 psychiatrist for years and this site is better than all of that!

The group you referenced here have it all wrong. This site does not encourage suicide one bit. Not once has anyone "instructed" me and if anything, the prevailing posts are wishes for peace. I'm sorry for their personal losses but blaming this site or others like it is just easier than looking at the real causes of hopelessness and suicide.
 
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mandyjohnuk

mandyjohnuk

Specialist
Jul 6, 2021
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It is a sad thing but content is mostly by people who have had someone close to them commit suicide. No one here encourages or has ever bullied. Well not me atleast. we would of all seen it. They cannot understand how a suicidal person thinks or may act as the person does not want help. they want a final end to life. That's not a selfish act it's a trueful and personal act.
 
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Shu

Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
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You're the idiots bullying people to death or did you forget that? I see you're sweeping it under the rug and spreading lies. You have directly told people to kill themselves and shit so SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP. I'd say before you look like an idiot but it's already too late. We might as well add a wig and big red nose. How 'bout new shoes, size 30?? Oh and some nice polka dot overalls.
Yeah I've low key seen them through hits at that before yeah
 
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Seeking_Peace

Arcanist
May 18, 2022
476
I've never heard of this 'cause'. It will be irrelevant by 2023. But, hey, they should fix their own problems before getting on others.
 
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Smart No More

Visionary
May 5, 2021
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There really are a bunch of ass hats around this forum but that applies everywhere. It's not true that people are bullied into committing either through obvious bullying, peer pressure or persuasive encouragement. We know this and I'm certain Kelli does too. I'm sorry for her or anyone who loses a child in whatever way. She didn't lose her child to suicide. She lost him to depression. That said, she's entitled to believe that if it makes her feel a little better however it's really not healthy and at some point the desire for truth must override the need to hide from it. At that point of realisation....well, I'd be tempted to say "I told you so" but honestly my heart would go out to her. It wouldn't really excuse her behaviour but she lost her son, right.

People that want to bully others into suicide don't go to a suicide websites to do it. That's shooting fish in a barrel and it's pretty embarrassing to learn you're a terrible shot under those circumstances. Instead they do it on social networks, gaming platforms and body dismorphia sites. They need witness in the form of peers. Not a bunch of people already trying to die. I see horrid stuff targeted out in the open on platforms that are fully in the public eye.

Fuck me Trump says some real terrible shit. Insiting violence and raring up people with delusional view just to get his sound bite. Only to change is mind when it suits him and the damage is done. Fuckwit!

There's a lot of bitterness in Kelli and she should know better than to use Pride Day to push her agenda and propaganda. She's made it clear she's happy to screenshot the forum so if making claims like this she needs to back them up with a source/proof otherwise she's just joined or insited a flame war. If that.

Pride Day is a day of celebration in how far we're coming as an all accepting humanity. Whether you're someone who aligns with LGBTQ, are Straight but in agreement, On the fence or Against. Then this is a day where that can be discussed and any heavy discussions under the banner. Not using it to piggyback your own agendas. It's rude and disrespectful. Not to say poorly executed. Her action indicate an all about me attitude and are actually quite negating of LGBTQ and it's day of celebration. Also you can't say this is the "hard truth..... maybe.....". I suspect she knows this to be the case in her mind. Its a certain mentality of selective belief and its very dangerous. She'll have regrets one day because we have to face ourselve when it comes. Perhaps this is the true challenge/meaning of life. Its the ultimate peak to climb in my opinion. To really look yourself in the eye and say yeah, I doing wrong. I'm not honest and my instinct is to serve only myself and to then follow through with the necessary self improvement and not be ruled by desire, fear, insecurity, grief and hate. I don't believe in heaven or hell though I would like to (sort of) . If there is a heaven I would wager all I have that the price of entry is paid by said vurtuous honesty with ones self and the ongoing inner battle to do right. In fact I am almost certain the trail of thought I just followed is what spawned religion itself. Only back then they we less developed and their language was often not so precise and varied. I bet they could type a damn site better than me though the bastoods. :))

Some people would roll in their graves were they able to read this (Kellis words and activism attempts) and follow her putting so much energy into making her delusions true so she can believe them. She's active like this and can't let it go because deep down she can't stop until she's fooled herself it's true. The alternative is too much for her to bare. I suspect there's some attempt to mask over a guilt complex but I'm just another idiot on the internet with an opinion. Without a factual source that's all it is.
 
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Shu

Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
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Getting this website shut down just means that more people don't have a place where they can connect and relate to others. Which is probably going to cause more suicide. I know people who have been here for years. They all tell me they would have been dead already if they didn't they found this website. I've never received so much understanding and support in any other community.
 
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Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,109
That entire Tweet is grotesque. Why did she bring up PRIDE in this context, retweeting something about Roe v. Wade?

I'd say there is an intersection between overturning Roe v. Wade and suicide. I'm pretty sure that forcing all of the pregnant people in certain US States to carry a pregnancy to term and give birth WILL result in some suicides. She's ignoring that. Because the solution to that is to get rid of the SS site, right? And keep the suffering, suicidal people alive? Perhaps she doesn't realize that a very large portion of the affected Red State folks have firearms readily available to them? Oh... or maybe she doesn't really care about trying to prevent suicide?

But really... why is she using that tweet to express "Happy Pride"? I don't think that was the actual PRIDE day. Cursory googling tells me that would have been the 28th.
 
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Shu

Shu

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Jan 21, 2022
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That entire Tweet is grotesque. Why did she bring up PRIDE in this context, retweeting something about Roe v. Wade?

I'd say there is an intersection between overturning Roe v. Wade and suicide. I'm pretty sure that forcing all of the pregnant people in certain US States to carry a pregnancy to term and give birth WILL result in some suicides. She's ignoring that. Because the solution to that is to get rid of the SS site, right? And keep the suffering, suicidal people alive? Perhaps she doesn't realize that a very large portion of the affected Red State folks have firearms readily available to them? Oh... or maybe she doesn't really care about trying to prevent suicide?

But really... why is she using that tweet to express "Happy Pride"? I don't think that was the actual PRIDE day. Cursory googling tells me that would have been the 28th.
I think it was sarcasm.
 
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Euthanza

Euthanza

Self Righteous Suicide
Jun 9, 2022
1,446
Because I think it's absolutely bullshit. If anything this website has saved my life and helped me more than anything. I have made tons of friends received all sorts of support. Have been accepted for how I feel instead of being made feel like an an ot a freak.. The fact I am able to talk about how I feel openly without feeling like I am less than a human has helped me tremendously. The fact I can relate to people and receive support and compassion..


I would like fixthe26 to provide ONE example of someone being bullied for not committing suicide.

Kelli isn't suicidal, she can't represent suicidal people (or her deceased suicidal son) period, not after years of the prevention tragedy.
 
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waitingforrest

Elementalist
Dec 27, 2021
842
I have seen them being transphobic in the past.
This.
The audacity to say happy pride, it's litterally almost over.
WHY CAN'T THEY GOOGLE UP THE TRANS SUICIDE RATE BECAUSE OF TRANSPHOBES LIKE THEM

Sorry for caps, it makes me mad how these people can act like they are righteous and still be the reasons that drives the LGBTQ+ community to ctb.
 
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Euthanza

Euthanza

Self Righteous Suicide
Jun 9, 2022
1,446
I have never seen anyone here bully anybody to ctb. Kelli Wilson doesnt know shit about how we are here.
It's the anti-suicide bullies, due to prevention norm; Kelli is one of them, and she doesn't even realize it.

I wish she would look back at her son's life clearly out side grief; Now with acceptance, imagine being bullied (or involuntarily isolated in psy ward) for wanting to commit suicide
 
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chyme

chyme

churning, churning
Jun 5, 2022
30
what really "hits suicidal people the hardest" are people who speak over them and pretend to know what they're going through..

The few instances I've seen on SS of users either encouraging or belittling someone else for not committing suicide was dealt with in some way.
But if you still don't want to live after so much treatment recommended by suicide prevention services, suddenly you're viewed as inhuman. Threatening to lock you in a psych ward indefinitely, accusing you of not trying hard enough, viewing you as incapable of rational thought, acting as if there is something fundamentally wrong with you, etc. It's disgusting.
 
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Marktheghost

Marktheghost

Paragon
Feb 20, 2020
911
I don't know of any web-sites that encourage suicide, but if there are any, how does it logically follow that they'd bully anybody that doesn't want to die?
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
3,468
That tweet is actually funny in its way, the thing is the more they tweet like that, dismissing abortion rights as a topic with a side order of transphobia as an extra treat, the fewer allies they're going to pick up. For all their bluster they're a smattering of 150-follow twitter accounts with the only engagement on their inane tweets being from each other.
 
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Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,252
Let's provide an example of bullying. A. Calling people Psycho. B. I have seen them being transphobic in the past. Trying Trying make innocent people feel bad for bei g here when for some this is our only source of support without being judged. C. Doxxing innocent people and making sick jokes about them. I would post more tweets but I have been blocked by them so I can't access then now. There are tons of other examples.
If people come on here bullying they get banned REAL quick.
Jermy gve an intervw sayng tht h/ ws 'bllied' aftr bckng out of an attmpt
Tke tht as u wll - nt xactly an unbiasd srce
 
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Suicidebydeath

No chances to be happy - dead inside
Nov 25, 2021
3,558
This from the people that have no accountability for their own actions.
"What hits Suicidal People the hardest?" - having no support network and shitty family doesn't help.
There is a support network and recovery section here.

Fuck ft26.
 
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sourokraandfish

sourokraandfish

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Apr 3, 2022
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I also read many articles including the NYT condemning this specific website and plan to take it down. Yet, they all seem to twist everything to serve their one-sided narrative. I can see how accessible CTB resources with clear instructions can be harmful to people like teenagers with symptoms of impulsivity or people that haven't given treatments a try etc.

But they also ignore the fact that most people on here have exhausted their means and thus have made a rational decision to kill themselves. They deserve to have their decision respected. Moreover, there are also so many people on here who have benefitted from the provided network of support that they lack in their lives. This is literally the only place where I can openly discuss my feelings without shame or fear.
 
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Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
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Sh/ hs also closd dwn th/ rplies evn mre s/ nt evn ppl sh/ fllows cn rply
 
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Shu

As above, So Below.
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Jermy gve an intervw sayng tht h/ ws 'bllied' aftr bckng out of an attmpt
Tke tht as u wll - nt xactly an unbiasd srce
Who is Jeremy?
What we say about others 9 out of 10 times says more about ourselves.

"They bully you etc" -Kelli

I plan on exiting regardless.. thing is? Without this website, I'd be gone by now. Hanging in my parents garage.

This place is part of the reason I'm still here. I've made friends. I've had time to reflect on how (hanging myself in my parents garage) would really traumatize them. I know me leaving is going to traumatize them regardless.. but idk. I've learned a lot from being here. I have also made friends/acquaintances. People who when I show up are always seem excited to see you, do not bully you into killing yourself ever, and if anything the ones I speak to don't even like to hear you say you're gonna leave.

Idk what I'm saying I suck at communicating. Idk why I made this thread either.

I was gonna leave with or without this forum. I found the information in other places.

Thanks to this website I'm still here to this day.
 
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Judy Garland

Judy Garland

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Jermy gve an intervw sayng tht h/ ws 'bllied' aftr bckng out of an attmpt
Tke tht as u wll - nt xactly an unbiasd srce
Yeah, who is Jeremy? And what method was he using that made him blind?
 
Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,252
Yeah, who is Jeremy? And what method was he using that made him blind?
Srry nt blnd - 'bullied' - h/ sd h/ ws bulld whn h/ bckd out of c.t.b

Post in thread 'Jeremy' https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/jeremy.83512/post-1490743
 
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Banshe

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Jun 28, 2022
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I feel that society tends to have an obsession with "saving people" but it never looks at the cause of to try and tackle the cause. So if you really want to help people, they should be tackling the things that make me want to CTB.
 
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