Sometimes we have to be humble and admit we are wrong or just move on. Its definitely your case, Aap. There are no beginners in this discussion. We are all beyond this capitalism vs. socialism subject. We are talking about a cultural, social and economy standards that exist only in capitalism and make people mentally sick. If your only contribution is defend that system than good lucky. That's all.
Sometimes, it's not about societal systems, but sunlight and darkness, or temperatures, cold and warm, weather and climate.
Back in 1988, then Massachusetts Governor Michael Dukakis was the Democratic nominee for President. After he was defeated by GHW Bush and chose not to run for reelection in 1990, he moved with his wife Kitty to Florida. Why? Kitty Dukakis is a severe depressive, best known for authoring the 2007 bestseller, "Shock: The Healing Power of Electroconvulsive Therapy," describing her experiences and benefits from that treatment beginning in 2001. Prior to that, they moved to sunny Florida in a bid to improve her mental health, and they spend their winter months in Los Angeles these days.
As it happens, ECT failed me completely in 2014 and 2015, but ECT did help Kitty Dukakis, somebody who had access to any form of mental health care available. Two ECT sessions in the mid 1960's also eliminated the depression of the late three term Missouri Senator Thomas Eagleton, the original Democratic VP nominee on George McGovern's 1972 ticket which lost to Nixon. (McGovern would get voted out of the Senate in Reagan's 1980 landslide defeat of Carter, but voters in Missouri who knew Eagleton well voted him to a third term in the upper chamber.)
Depression, suicides and suicidal behavior happen with everybody in all walks of life, regardless of wealth, fame, access to and use of mental health services, and it just doesn't matter in many cases.
Laying a preponderance of these problems at the doorstep of a certain exterior ethos is presumptuous. It's a "Grass is always greener on the other side" supposition. In my personal case, there are some biofeedback modalities I haven't tried and do not have access to which might help me if I could obtain the affordable use of those services, but I have known people in the biofeedback hotbed of Florida who all biofeedback methodologies were useless for.
In November 1996, Roger Callahan, the developer of Thought Field Therapy and history's most experienced mental health practitioner failed with me completely, and I still have my audiocassette copies of his failures with me in my possession.
Concerning my severe case of congenital obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), positive airway pressure for an uninterrupted year and a half only resulted in my developing a bad case of bronchitis which lasted over two and a half months. The late Peter Hauri who published the book, "No More Sleepless Nights" is among those who fell on their faces with me.
Doesn't matter if capitalism, neoliberalism, libertarianism, communism, socialism or some other external social structure was surrounding my personal life, I'd still be screwed.
Maybe a warm sunny climate would help my outlook, but let's remember that most of those who are struggling to enter the United States through Mexico are coming up from Central America, Venezuela and other locations which would be desirable places to live if it wasn't for despotic and negligent governmental regimes, both socialistic and capitalistic.
Regarding "perfect body," "perfect face," the anthropology of physical attraction and desirability transcends species. It doesn't only apply to humans. Great looks can get one treated like royalty or dirt. It can make a boy or girl a target of sexual predation. I had a female friend who was a Penthouse Forum cover girl. Her life was sheer hell. The only good looker in her entire huge high school class in California, her jealous classmates treated her like garbage to knock her down. Worse, her father was an abusive alcoholic, and she inherited his alcoholism. I could have seduced her easily enough, but instead tried to support her sobriety efforts with Alcoholics Anonymous and with some self help literature before she moved away and we lost contact. (By her own admission, it was the bastards in her life that she had dysfunctional relationships with, thanks to the pattern her father set. No, I didn't take advantage of her, even as an arm candy trophy date, and I feel good about that, as I have a conscience I have to live and die with. I learned from newspaper reports after she left my area that she'd fallen off the wagon, getting busted for DWI a couple times. I feel badly about that. She was a nice girl who didn't deserve to be hated for being beautiful.)
In a letter to Horace Greeley on 19 May 1848, Henry Thoreau wrote to New York Tribune founder and friend Horace Greeley from Walden Pond: "The fact is man need not live by the sweat of his brow unless he sweats easier than I do, he needs so little."
During the 1980's, I was able to live in a nice new apartment, purchase a new pickup truck, and add money to my bank account, all as a hospital housekeeper working 25 hours a week Monday to Friday, 3PM - 8PM, a job which supplied me with full health and dental coverage. (Reagan happened to be President, but regardless of who occupied the White House, life was good for me in the 1980's.) Later, I retired on disability from Motel 6 as an auditor when the French Accor corporation owned and operated it. Accor considered 15 hours a week to be full time, and that was enough to qualify their employees for full health and dental coverage. I never worked for an employer who required me to work more than 24 hours a week to get full health and dental coverage.
Companies exploit compulsive workaholics who in turn screw up the rest of us, but nobody should need to work more than 15 hours a week to make ends meet, going back at least to 1980, and probably earlier than that.
"Work ethic" is bullshit. Instead, people are too busy trying to earn a living to do any living. I believe capitalism has the potential to offer a solution in the way of competitive employers.
Henry Ford implemented the 40 hour work week, weekends off, all his employees got a car, and he strongly believed leisure was as important as work. At that time, Stalin and communism were bleeding workers dry.
Some things have gotten better. Boys are no longer getting drafted for military combat so they might die in war before they've had a chance to live. The idea you'll get drafted at age 18 so you can die in war before turning 19 seems monstrous to me.
"Draft
capital as well as men. Any time you take everything that men has got the same as conscript, boys, there ain't going to be no war." ~ Will Rogers, July 22, 1923