Venting do you ever think of how you’ll be remembered?

[new2blue]

I think the people closest to me won't be surprised by my departure. They know that I know that I was loved and cared for. My immediate family will never forget me, and that makes me sad. I wish I didn't have such lovely people in my life. My partner, god, I wish I could make her forget about me. Not to sound too self important, but I am a massive part of her life.

In general I'll be remembered as an odd person who was kind and soft most of the time. A writer. A person who tried. A dreamer who lost his mind. It was be a tragic memory. I only hope time will make it a sweet one

 

[PrettyPotato]

I think no matter how cynical or jaded someone is, they still hope to be remembered fondly by someone.

I would *like* to remembered as someone that was intelligent, creative, and not afraid to dive in and try new things. I hope they will also somewhat respect my lifelong decision not to conform to the societal norm of working until nearly dead and retiring. I of course have no control over whether any of that will be the case or not - they may just think I've been a total idiot!

I also suspect a few close friends will be quite shocked and saddened at the news, but they're all tough enough to get over it I think.
Business clients will likely hate me for leaving them in the lurch! At least I don't have any immediate family or a significant other, which is probably a good thing in the current situation.

 

[Kit1]

Perhaps for the next few years. But it doesn't really matter. I will be gone.

 

[Unattainable666]

I think about this a lot, and It's like I want to be remembered to show the pain I was going through. A lot of people kinda invalidate what I am going through and say it's not that bad... I don't really want to hurt my friends or family, but I think they will get over it eventually.

My motto for people who invalidate your feelings is this, "walk a mile in my shoes and then come talk to me about your feelings, until that time keep your fucking mouth shut." A bit harsh but so true. Unless someone lives your life they are clueless as to your feelings.

 

[Circles]

Doubt I'll even be remembered at all since I am a quiet weird worthless nobody who stays by himself. How many people are going to be remembered like that? No one. Hell my family won't care and if anyone cares to remember me it might be my sister if she outlives me but even then. I've helped people over the years but even then I doubt they'll remember an act of kindness. Once you're dead it will be like you never existed all so what's the point in worrying about it.

 

[huphup]

My motto for people who invalidate your feelings is this, "walk a mile in my shoes and then come talk to me about your feelings, until that time keep your fucking mouth shut." A bit harsh but so true. Unless someone lives your life they are clueless as to your feelings.

I wish I was that assertive haha... It's true though noone else can really understand our own pain but ourselves

 

[jbear824]

I won't be. So I have no reason to worry about it.

 

[cold_severance]

i want to be hated tbh. like even in death my corpse could be used as a shitty puppet for someone to play with until its no longer useful. thankfully i wouldn't care after.

 

[Ksmиda]

Forgotten - no funeral, nothing just cremate me and scatter my ashes in a forest or something.
I don't like getting attention in life, and I don't want anyone to really know or care about my death.

 

[lovedread]

Yeah a lot tbh. Even though it won't matter

 

[sancta-simplicitas]

I really hope I'm not remembered, thus I try not to think about it. I'm afraid they're going to say some generic bullshit on my funeral, such as "he always put others before himself". While it's true, it's the last thing I want to be remembered for. That I only exist as a human crutch and that my fundamental worth has always been tied to what I do for others.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I genuinely want to be remembered as a terrible person whose death made the world slightly better simply because I'm no longer in it.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

I think it'd be better if no one remembered me after I'm dead.

 

[Raindancer]

I actually just thought about this for the first time the other day. Some people will, but over time it will just be another sad story.

 

[Catch-22]

Remembered... ? I've already been forgotten

 

[cosmic-freedom]

I don't want anyone to remember me and there is no one who will remember me either.