Do you care about what people are going to think, like talking shit and looking down on you for ctb?

[Passersby]

I wanted to see how everyone feels about this. Obviously if we are not conscious then we can't care but there will still be the after effect in this word. How do you feel about it? Does it bother you or not? While we are still here we can picture and hear in our minds the responses from people, that is if we want to or even care.

 

[TheMetalhead]

It bothers me, that's the only reason why I didn't ctb yet. I still got some things to do so people won't talk shit after I die.

 

[jussrav]

Noone gives a crap when you are Live so I dont really give a ceap what they think when I am dead. I just wish I could find a way.

 

[FuneralCry]

No as I'll be at peace, whatever happens in this disgusting, dreadful world won't be my concern. It comforts me so much the thought of being dead.

 

[RichardFirst]

In a way, I wonder what my neighbours and colleagues would think. However, I have personally known people who self-deleted, and sad as it is to say, life moves on. After a time, a CTB will just be a memory.

Of course, once we're gone, what others say about us doesn't really matter...

 

[Brown-Jacket Revy]

The people who would talk shit and look down upon me, already do.

My family would understand, though.

 

[ChronicallyCynical]

Yes and no. I care about what the people I care for will think. But people who shit talk me and look down upon me for feeling this way, for wanting this, don't truly care for me, I don't think, and I mean, once I'm dead... what is there to feel, if after death is nothingness - or that's my guess. But I would feel bad if I hurt someone who simply didn't want to lose me but didn't think I was being selfish for attempting ctb. I am rather fearful of what I will find out about the people I've been around in real life if I were to ever admit to attempting it, though. I don't want to know if they'll see me as selfish, lesser, sick, or something...

 

[mindless_imp]

Not too much. I care to an extent but not in a negative way. I don't care if people grieve or anything etc. I hope people realise their mistakes or simply be happy I'm gone for good, out of their lives forever. I know there are people that used to know me that despise my guts and god do I know they'll be happy about it. I cant wait for the school assembly about my suicide, for them to tell their friend/s that knew me and for them to shit talk me over and over. They do it anyway so what'll stop them then? then that friend will tell their other friend group that contains multiple people I used to know. But I don't know how hed react to that. I hope he grieves.

 

[SpiritualDeath]

Not too much. People that talk shit are probably going to do so regardless of what you do (not just ctb), so I would say just relax, you're making everything you do harder by caring to much about people blabbing.

 

[snowlance]

I know some of them will but idc, as long as my immediate family knows it isn't their fault, I'm happy.

 

[passivethought121]

Not really. I don't care what anyone feels or thinks when I'm dead. Those who know that they shouldn't feel bad will know, and everyone else can have whatever opinion they want.

 

[howcanigo]

It's a mortal 'what if.' I won't have to think about it when I'm dead. While I want whatever impact and image I have to be positive, if people take the way I leave as a reason to judge me, that's more on them than it is on me. People who judge people who kill themselves or make any free decision like that, that doesn't take another persons freedom or safety away are kinda weird. I just hope the people who actually care can move on with peace.

 

[Boudika]

I honestly kind of do. I don't want my death to be equated to "she did it because she was ugly" or "she did it because the pressure got to her".

 

[Passersby]

Thanks guys for your responses! Its puts things into perspective more. As for me I do and I don't I guess. There's not much point to really because time will pass and all will be forgotten. It depends on who it is and what the relation is so there's that. Anyone who would talk shit about something like this isn't worth my time anyway. I'm learning to let go more. Nobody understands suicide anyway.

 

[harlemriver]

This might be a vague answer, however, in my head, it makes sense, and it is what brings me peace. "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel". Therefore, i won't have much to worry about.

 

[oneeyed]

Having attempted in the past and confiding in people I trusted (or thought I could anyway), some people most definitely look down on me. Years ago, I reconnected with an old coworker and things seemed to lead to a possible relationship, got ghosted once I told her. If I were to attempt again and succeed, I just don't want people doing that to my family.

 

[rainseahorse]

i've realized i'm a nobody so i don't really see why people would care. i'm going to use the toilet before i CTB though so i can leave less of a mess.

 

[ZedZeo]

I think the people that have to take my body out will probably talk about me. But I think they'll understand why I did it so maybe they won't look down on me for it. Though I suppose it doesn't even matter

 

[theRetroHawk]

I wanted to see how everyone feels about this. Obviously if we are not conscious then we can't care but there will still be the after effect in this word. How do you feel about it? Does it bother you or not? While we are still here we can picture and hear in our minds the responses from people, that is if we want to or even care.

I really don't care about the negative but I just hope I left an impact on someday and they may remember me at all or just say hey I remember him. I basically live a life of serving other people and not for myself so it's in my instinct to want people to acknowledge me

 

[CTBookOfLife]

If I ever CTB, I'll hopefully just set up a spell (I'm a witch) that gives anyone who talks badly on my CTB "bad luck"

 

[BlazingBob]

Nope. Don't give a

 

[Borderline]

I don't care what others think or say about me if I kill myself.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

I wanted to see how everyone feels about this. Obviously if we are not conscious then we can't care but there will still be the after effect in this word. How do you feel about it? Does it bother you or not? While we are still here we can picture and hear in our minds the responses from people, that is if we want to or even care.

I never thought of things like that what others could say about me after I'm gone. I don't care because I'm not here anymore.

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

No. After I kill myself I won't exist forever. So to me the whole universe instantly disappears and won't appear forever .

This will happen whether I kill myself or not. We all die and disappear forever as if we never existed in the first place

It's like if I obtained the fictional infinity gauntlet and all Stones . Then I could snap my fingers and the whole universe disappears. Except the shotgun or a drink of nembutal is the infinity gauntlet. One squeezing of the trigger one drink the whole universe disappears forever. The proverbial red button.

All alive will die anyway. The universe too will die

 

[marlyn]

No, I couldn't care less. It's none of their business. People who are so judgemental have already lost my respect

 

[Jmall]

The only reason I haven't is because I have a kid. It's less about "shit" talking and more about what will happen to her when I'm gone. Her mother is a terrible person, I have full custody. If I die, she goes to her mom... just gotta wait until she's 18 I guess.

 

[leloyon]

Not particularly. I would be more wary if I knew my suicide would be known outside of the people who knew me (which is appealing for some people, which probably explains all the mass shootings happening; suicidal people wanting to be famous and known) but I'm aware that committing suicide alone won't do that, so what's the point?
As for the people who did know me and will know about it, I still don't care, I hate them and they can't do shit to me once I'm dead, nor do I care if or what they do.

 

[Meteora]

I dont care really. Except my "family", I dont want them near my death body but I dont know how to arrange it.

 

[dkdkdkdkkd]

Honestly, I don't care about it because a) it's my life and my decision b) it really doesn't matter to me since nothing does anymore

 

[unoriginalnick]

Honestly That's a reason why I would hesitate, I don't want people to hate the sight of me then talk about me like we were best friends. The truth is that you cant call bullshit when your dead and if i were to die i would want to retain dignity.