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Do we owe our parents anything?

  • Yes

    Votes: 8 27.6%
  • No

    Votes: 22 75.9%

  • Total voters
    29
Anonymousa

Anonymousa

Get me Out
Sep 21, 2024
2,393
Literally nothing if they hadn't treated or raised you right. If they did tho, i would say they deserve some basic respect but otherwise not much unless you are wanting them to get something for you that isn't needed and you already comfortable with life.
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Illuminated
May 10, 2025
3,530
no, I despise my family, they are human scum
 
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boredandoverboard

boredandoverboard

Would I be who I am without the sadness in me?
Nov 18, 2025
20
You are their obligation. It's more that they owe you than you owe them. They owe you a safe childhood and a great mentoring in life for selfishly having brought you into the world. However I agree with @Namelesa, if your parents treated you right and respects you then you should treat your parents right and respect them as well.
 
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davidtorez

davidtorez

Warlock
Mar 8, 2024
774
Thanks for your thoughts and replies. I personally dont feel like I owe them anything. They brought me into this life for their own entertainment, happiness or purpose so as far as I'm concerned they need to do their best to accommodate my needs and help me out whenever I need it, regardless of my age etc.
 
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badatparties

badatparties

Elementalist
Mar 16, 2025
814
No, but if they were at least decent and tried to raise you right, even though they might have made mistakes and didn't know better, try to be respectful to them until you CTB out of this dump.
 
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