Do I tell my daughters?

[PaYo]

If you tell the kids or hint to them there's a chance they will tell either your partner or teachers in school/friends which would draw more attention to you and possibly prevent your plan. A letter or a video for afterwards sounds best

Thats also can make a chain reaction in which people my want help him. This might be good thing to do

Thats also can make a chain reaction in which people my want help him. This might be good thing to do

And yet he can still make whatever he want. But at least he will have a choice