Dehumanization

[tamagatcha]

being doubted, disbelieved, seen as deceptive, hiding something, not showing your true self, told your expierence isn't what humans expierence, when your doing nothing but telling your truth, such rejection of my whole being hurts so bad it kills me from the inside, all because my expierence/emotions aren't the "normal", being an statistic abnormality and then my hurt, defensiveness and struggle to communicate to be understood is seen as a indicator/proof something is wrong.
When i open up to you about my feelings, specifically the ones of feeling diffrent, please just listen to me. Why is there so much suspicion when there isn't even any harm, what would i get from lying? Attention? Being seen as special? Im trying my best to be understood and noone gets it :( its just easier for them to simplify it, or it doesn't fit their world view of what humans expierence, idk i dont get it and i can't stand it

 

[timf]

If someone says something hurtful there can be several questions to ask.

Is it true?
Is it helpful?
Is it being said to vent?
Is it being said to hurt?
Is it said out of ignorance?

Sometimes a person that says something hurtful can be reasoned with, but most often is is best to simply avoid those that are hurtful. - Once burned, twice shy.

 

[tamagatcha]

If someone says something hurtful there can be several questions to ask.

Is it true?
Is it helpful?
Is it being said to vent?
Is it being said to hurt?
Is it said out of ignorance?

Sometimes a person that says something hurtful can be reasoned with, but most often is is best to simply avoid those that are hurtful. - Once burned, twice shy.

I think its mostly out of ignorance, i feel like people don't realise they are being hurtful even when i tell them they are