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Releasefrompressure
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- Apr 29, 2022
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7th of May. Saturday.
I am in a difficult circumstance. I have had a great life and been married for 20 years.
Couple of years ago me and my wife decided to retire in South America.
Things where going well until last year I was told I have esophageal cancer, after months of pain, was bit of a shock.
We had just finished buying our house outright, so faced with the prospect of having to sell our house in order to fund treatment, i decided on suicide.
The pain is getting to the point now where It is unbearable and I want to go. I am at the point where every morning I think. "I want death' first thing as I wakeup.
I haven't told my wife I have decided on the date yet, and I am in two minds.
Do i tell her now ? so she has a few days to get to terms with it or let her know the day before and assert that I am ready.
We know that i am going to kill myself. I have decided this with her. She put up objections for a while but I told her I would not allow her to do stop me.
In a way i do feel like I am being robbed of few years but by the same token, I can feel a little bit of pride knowing I looked after my wife.
I did not allow her to sell our one humble property in order to prolong my life.
I stuck to my obligations as a man and a husband and am taking a decision that is a bit scary but I have to do..
I take the idea of having an honorable death very seriously and in a way i am proud to have this, although not under the circumstances.
Thanks for reading
I am in a difficult circumstance. I have had a great life and been married for 20 years.
Couple of years ago me and my wife decided to retire in South America.
Things where going well until last year I was told I have esophageal cancer, after months of pain, was bit of a shock.
We had just finished buying our house outright, so faced with the prospect of having to sell our house in order to fund treatment, i decided on suicide.
The pain is getting to the point now where It is unbearable and I want to go. I am at the point where every morning I think. "I want death' first thing as I wakeup.
I haven't told my wife I have decided on the date yet, and I am in two minds.
Do i tell her now ? so she has a few days to get to terms with it or let her know the day before and assert that I am ready.
We know that i am going to kill myself. I have decided this with her. She put up objections for a while but I told her I would not allow her to do stop me.
In a way i do feel like I am being robbed of few years but by the same token, I can feel a little bit of pride knowing I looked after my wife.
I did not allow her to sell our one humble property in order to prolong my life.
I stuck to my obligations as a man and a husband and am taking a decision that is a bit scary but I have to do..
I take the idea of having an honorable death very seriously and in a way i am proud to have this, although not under the circumstances.
Thanks for reading