• Hey Guest,

    As you know, censorship around the world has been ramping up at an alarming pace. The UK and OFCOM has singled out this community and have been focusing its censorship efforts here. It takes a good amount of resources to maintain the infrastructure for our community and to resist this censorship. We would appreciate any and all donations.

    Bitcoin Address (BTC): 39deg9i6Zp1GdrwyKkqZU6rAbsEspvLBJt

    Ethereum (ETH): 0xd799aF8E2e5cEd14cdb344e6D6A9f18011B79BE9

    Monero (XMR): 49tuJbzxwVPUhhDjzz6H222Kh8baKe6rDEsXgE617DVSDD8UKNaXvKNU8dEVRTAFH9Av8gKkn4jDzVGF25snJgNfUfKKNC8

  • Security update: At around 2:28AM EST, the site was labeled as malicious by Google erroneously, causing users to get a "Dangerous site" warning in most browsers. It appears that this was done by mistake and has been reversed by Google. It may take a few hours for you to stop seeing those warnings.

    If you're still getting these warnings, please let a member of staff know.
S

skylar160

Member
Oct 18, 2024
33
Hello, I am a trans woman. I am out on bail for a crime I was accused of. I just found out that if I do get sent to prison, I will be sent to a male prison since I haven't had my surgery yet. My surgery will probably be scheduled around December but I wouldn't be able to have it if I go to prison. My lawyer confirmed this with me and I'm very wanting to ctb right now. It makes me furious. At least I have another good reason to ctb.
 
  • Love
  • Hugs
  • Hmph!
Reactions: Spearmint, radiohead, EternalShore and 9 others
Seven Threads

Seven Threads

Iterator
Mar 5, 2023
106
This is honestly disgusting. Trans people in general are facing historic levels of persecution and stigmatization, especially where I live in the US. It honestly seems like the cruelty of this policy is the point of it all.

Is your lawyer at least trying to advocate for you and your rights?
 
  • Like
Reactions: Tired&Drained and Namelesa
S

skylar160

Member
Oct 18, 2024
33
This is honestly disgusting. Trans people in general are facing historic levels of persecution and stigmatization, especially where I live in the US. It honestly seems like the cruelty of this policy is the point of it all.

Is your lawyer at least trying to advocate for you and your rights?
He's doing his best. The primary goal is to keep me out of prison in the first place. If I do face prison, in my suicide note I will write that this is the reason why. I would rather die than being sent to a male prison and not being allowed surgery. I hope that this is a valid enough reason for me to ctb.
 
Last edited:
  • Hugs
  • Love
  • Like
Reactions: shadowsandink, Spearmint, commongardensnailll and 3 others
Namelesa

Namelesa

Trapped in this Suffering
Sep 21, 2024
691
He's doing my best. The primary goal is to keep me out of prison in the first place. If I do face prison, in my suicide note I will write that this is the reason why. I would rather die than being sent to a male prison and not being allowed surgery. I hope that this is a valid enough reason for me to ctb.
Any reason is valid for wanting to ctb as we were forced into this. Its not your fault that you got birthed into a body you are dysphoric about. I would 100% want to die too if I was sent to a male prison.
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: EternalShore
Eudaimonic

Eudaimonic

I want to fade away.
Aug 11, 2023
426
Hello, I am a trans woman. I am out on bail for a crime I was accused of. I just found out that if I do get sent to prison, I will be sent to a male prison since I haven't had my surgery yet. My surgery will probably be scheduled around December but I wouldn't be able to have it if I go to prison. My lawyer confirmed this with me and I'm very wanting to ctb right now. It makes me furious. At least I have another good reason to ctb.
I'm incredibly sorry about your situation. I really hope you do not get sent to prison. This society we live in is really disgusting.
 
  • Love
Reactions: Namelesa
T

Tired&Drained

Trans and tired
Apr 17, 2022
20
He's doing my best. The primary goal is to keep me out of prison in the first place. If I do face prison, in my suicide note I will write that this is the reason why. I would rather die than being sent to a male prison and not being allowed surgery. I hope that this is a valid enough reason for me to ctb.
As a trans woman I support you no matter what you do. Just don't stick around out of some sense of obligation or strength, those two are probably the biggest justifiers of the most serious self-harm.

Feel free to dm me too
 
  • Love
Reactions: Spearmint
taysontheory

taysontheory

Member
Jan 17, 2025
45
Sorry for what you're going through, my heart goes out to you, I'm trans too


o
 
Autumn_Stars

Autumn_Stars

Member
Jun 9, 2024
65
If there ever was a justified reason to CTB it is your reason. You are facing assault, rape, and the loss of your freedom. You will be branded for life. It will affect your net worth and the ability to get your surgery. If I were you I would make surgery your priority. I would chip in. Ask everyone you know. Use social media. Stress the urgency.
 
Worndown

Worndown

Illuminated
Mar 21, 2019
3,218
Just in case you are sent to prison and are still alive, try to verify they have a separate section for people that would not mix as well with the general population.
They really cannot just toss you in without some consideration. (I hope you are not in Texas)
 
J

J&L383

Warlock
Jul 18, 2023
773
He's doing his best. The primary goal is to keep me out of prison in the first place. If I do face prison, in my suicide note I will write that this is the reason why. I would rather die than being sent to a male prison and not being allowed surgery. I hope that this is a valid enough reason for me to ctb.
I don't believe there are any valid or invalid reasons. It is up to each individual to decide. I'm sorry you're in this position, I hope you stay out of jail. šŸ¤žšŸ™
 
  • Like
Reactions: skylar160
S

skylar160

Member
Oct 18, 2024
33
I really need someone to talk to. Can someone message me?
 

Similar threads

S
Replies
1
Views
215
Suicide Discussion
flowerfacefan1
F
Depressive_Thoughts
Replies
7
Views
222
Suicide Discussion
Depressive_Thoughts
Depressive_Thoughts
S
Replies
3
Views
182
Suicide Discussion
Shadows From Hell
Shadows From Hell
RULE8AM
Replies
9
Views
281
Suicide Discussion
i love yoshi ^-^
i love yoshi ^-^