HenryHenriksen_6E
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- Oct 19, 2024
- 89
I have some online friends from mainly two different communities, all of them unaware that I'll be taking my leave pretty soon, so I've been really unsure on how to explain that I won't be able to talk to them anymore. I have a note I'll leave to one person I know rather well, and I'll trust him to mediate my passing to the rest of our group, though to the other community I'm unsure. I'm kinda just existing in there, so not really a special figure, however I engage there frequently enough to give them a heads up that I kicked the bucket, but I'm not so closely connected to a person where I'd be willing to dm it.
Now, I don't know if this is really stupid, or just an aight idea, but I need some criticism. For now, I've just planned to put the information on my profile, assuming someone will eventually stumble across it, however I know there are some flaws in that. First of all: I could just have a random unsuspecting stranger accidentally click on my pfp to find whatever I've written on there, which isn't exactly ideal, as I don't wish to unnecessarily ruin more days than needed. Secondly: I could fail my attempt for whatever reason, and I could end up waddling home knowing there's a certain chance of me opening my laptop to some mildly concerned messages - something I don't want because that'd be giving a shit ton of people a window into my struggles. Another issue is that people might assume I'm seeking attention and won't take it seriously. Those who know me a little better know I'm not like that, but still.
Another thing I could do is send my stuff to that one friend and have him convey it to the other community, but that feels a little shitty of me to burden someone with an extra sidequest while they have to deal with all the other things.
Or maybe I just post a suicide note in the meme channels if I don't give a fuck in that moment of time. Who knows, perhaps they find it funny.
Either way, I'm kinda lost right now, unsure of those things, so feel free to give me some suggestions that might burden my peers slightly less when it comes to sharing the news.
Now, I don't know if this is really stupid, or just an aight idea, but I need some criticism. For now, I've just planned to put the information on my profile, assuming someone will eventually stumble across it, however I know there are some flaws in that. First of all: I could just have a random unsuspecting stranger accidentally click on my pfp to find whatever I've written on there, which isn't exactly ideal, as I don't wish to unnecessarily ruin more days than needed. Secondly: I could fail my attempt for whatever reason, and I could end up waddling home knowing there's a certain chance of me opening my laptop to some mildly concerned messages - something I don't want because that'd be giving a shit ton of people a window into my struggles. Another issue is that people might assume I'm seeking attention and won't take it seriously. Those who know me a little better know I'm not like that, but still.
Another thing I could do is send my stuff to that one friend and have him convey it to the other community, but that feels a little shitty of me to burden someone with an extra sidequest while they have to deal with all the other things.
Or maybe I just post a suicide note in the meme channels if I don't give a fuck in that moment of time. Who knows, perhaps they find it funny.
Either way, I'm kinda lost right now, unsure of those things, so feel free to give me some suggestions that might burden my peers slightly less when it comes to sharing the news.
