Discussion Celebrate your small win!

[Forever Sleep]

Does anyone find themselves doing this? I guess, because I've become so reluctant to do anything. I can easily go near full days of procrastinating (when work allows.)

So, to combat this, I've taken to hugely congratulating myself on small wins in the hopes it will spur me on. Can't say it's working but:

You put yesterday's socks in the laundry basket! Yayyeeeeee!



What were your 'small wins' today? Give yourself a pat on the back here!

 

[GeminiButter]

Does anyone find themselves doing this? I guess, because I've become so reluctant to do anything. I can easily go near full days of procrastinating (when work allows.)

So, to combat this, I've taken to hugely congratulating myself on small wins in the hopes it will spur me on. Can't say it's working but:

You put yesterday's socks in the laundry basket! Yayyeeeeee!



What were your 'small wins' today? Give yourself a pat on the back here!

Well done!!!

I was literally in the middle of starting a new post on this because things are bleak and hype is good.

I just washed my hair for the first time in two weeks!!!

 

[SchizoGymnast]

I hired an organizer to help me get my boarding under control

 

[Forever Sleep]

I hired an organizer to help me get my boarding under control

That's a really good idea. I hope they are helpful.

 

[SchizoGymnast]

That's a really good idea. I hope they are helpful.

They are. The key is to establish a rapport. My organizer loved deep cleaning and I was fine sorting through things and throwing them out. Teamwork!

 

[Tumblewillow]

This has inspired me, I'm gonna get the dishes done

 

[derekWest]

Be alive 2month after my ctb attempt and be quite satisfy by my life (more important).

Have some hookcups.

 

[GeminiButter]

This has inspired me, I'm gonna get the dishes done

I managed to do several days worth of dishes this morning unexpectedly! I hope your dishes got done

 

[Tumblewillow]

I managed to do several days worth of dishes this morning unexpectedly! I hope your dishes got done

They did! Go us!

 

[CatLvr]

I managed to do several days worth of dishes this morning unexpectedly! I hope your dishes got done

Dishes seem to be a thing ... Lol ... I am off to the kitchen sink!!

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

Does anyone find themselves doing this? I guess, because I've become so reluctant to do anything. I can easily go near full days of procrastinating (when work allows.)

So, to combat this, I've taken to hugely congratulating myself on small wins in the hopes it will spur me on. Can't say it's working but:

You put yesterday's socks in the laundry basket! Yayyeeeeee!



What were your 'small wins' today? Give yourself a pat on the back here!

I hate to admit it but I had to call the cops on my ex because he won't leave my complex and is stalking me. I am proud for calling them but feel shame at the same time because of a warrant he has still I'm proud I was brave enough.

 

[BlueLock]

good job! Today I finally finished drying my sheets and made my bed, so no more sleeping on a bare mattress.

 

[GeminiButter]

I hate to admit it but I had to call the cops on my ex because he won't leave my complex and is stalking me. I am proud for calling them but feel shame at the same time because of a warrant he has still I'm proud I was brave enough.

Well done! This is not an easy thing to do ever and no one likes cops but you did what you had to do to keep yourself safe

Todays win: I ended up going out this afternoon with my dog and some other dogs we know from the park to a ridiculous charity dog show and then we had ice cream and walked home and it is the most socialising I have done and most hours spent out of the house in literally… months and I even managed to enjoy myself?! It was very unexpected but I'm glad I had a nice day for the first time in a long, long time

 

[CatLvr]

I hate to admit it but I had to call the cops on my ex because he won't leave my complex and is stalking me. I am proud for calling them but feel shame at the same time because of a warrant he has still I'm proud I was brave enough.

Good for you!! Life is hard enough without someone deliberately trying to make it worse for you. I know how hard that was for you -- btdt -- and felt an enormous amount of guilt and grief at the time. Over the years I have learned that not only was it the right thing to do for ME, it also helped him out, too. Granted, he didn't like what he had to go through, but it DID help him realize that I wasn't coming back and that he needed to find a way to go on, also.

Do not be ashamed. Or feel guilty. Or bad in any other way. You are stronger than you know, and you deserve better. Be blessed.

 

[TheDevilsAngel]

Good for you!! Life is hard enough without someone deliberately trying to make it worse for you. I know how hard that was for you -- btdt -- and felt an enormous amount of guilt and grief at the time. Over the years I have learned that not only was it the right thing to do for ME, it also helped him out, too. Granted, he didn't like what he had to go through, but it DID help him realize that I wasn't coming back and that he needed to find a way to go on, also.

Do not be ashamed. Or feel guilty. Or bad in any other way. You are stronger than you know, and you deserve better. Be blessed.

Thank you so much your message has given me hope I have to call them again tho. He walked off awhile ago ima try keep an eye out for him and then call them I won't let this happen to me again he shouldn't be here it's private property. I know it's for the best and I wish him well but I can't help him now. It's hard to know if his here I wish I was brave enough to check as there is no point the police coming if he is gone his in and out all day and when I saw him this morning in a sleeping bag down there. Well what more can I say

I'm glad you over came it I know it's possible as this isn't the first time ive had to do this unfortunately.

Well done! This is not an easy thing to do ever and no one likes cops but you did what you had to do to keep yourself safe

Todays win: I ended up going out this afternoon with my dog and some other dogs we know from the park to a ridiculous charity dog show and then we had ice cream and walked home and it is the most socialising I have done and most hours spent out of the house in literally… months and I even managed to enjoy myself?! It was very unexpected but I'm glad I had a nice day for the first time in a long, long time

Your day sounds so nice I enjoyed reading that! And thank you for your message it means a lot. As you probably read I've to ring them again I wish this was over

Thank you so much your message has given me hope I have to call them again tho. He walked off awhile ago ima try keep an eye out for him and then call them I won't let this happen to me again he shouldn't be here it's private property. I know it's for the best and I wish him well but I can't help him now. It's hard to know if his here I wish I was brave enough to check as there is no point the police coming if he is gone his in and out all day and when I saw him this morning in a sleeping bag down there. Well what more can I say

I'm glad you over came it I know it's possible as this isn't the first time ive had to do this unfortunately.


Your day sounds so nice I enjoyed reading that! And thank you for your message it means a lot. As you probably read I've to ring them again I wish this was over