Catching the bus without children

[woknows]

@Funeralprincess thank you so eloquently explaining that in fact, you are a run-of-the-mill golddigger. Case closed. Not sure why you are on this forum. It is not intended for happy golddiggers who have landed a successful man.

 

[Anonperson1]

Then that's your preference. There's lots of feminists out there for you lol you have fun with that, mate.

The only difference between a hooker and golddigger is the length of the contract. Don't have to date an unwashed feminist to find a good looking girl who respects herself and brings something more to the table than a good (depreciating) body.

 

[Funeralprincess]

The only difference between a hooker and golddigger is the length of the contract. Don't have to date an unwashed feminist to find a good looking girl who respects herself and brings something more to the table than a good (depreciating) body.

I don't think good looking women would date someone who talks about their body that way :) it makes sense why you haven't had kids yet. Nobody would have them with you and I can see why. Truly, it is a failure as you yourself have stated.

 

[KlMeNw]

you know, one of the only things holding me back at the moment is the fact that I don't have children. It seems like an utter failure of life if my genes don't get passed on after billions of years of ancestors who were able to gather enough resources to reproduce. I've had several people who want to start a family with me pop over over the last 4 years, but what's held me back is feelings of being inadequate as a father in terms of finance and job stability. If I had one and CTB, I wonder though if that would fuck them up and continue a chain of mental illness...and the effect on the mother. Maybe a golddigger who's after a house and money wouldn't care, but meh.
Anyone else in the same boat?

No need to wonder, you'd fuck them up. Your kids would not only mourn your loss forever but you would also deny them the fatherly guidance and protection that they NEED growing up. Not to mention you'd be dooming them to poverty and financial instability which will carry through for their whole lives. If you had kids knowing you will likely CTB then you would be extremely selfish and in my opinion a downright evil SOB.

 

[Anonperson1]

No need to wonder, you'd fuck them up. Your kids would not only mourn your loss forever but you would also deny them the fatherly guidance and protection that they NEED growing up. Not to mention you'd be dooming them to poverty and financial instability which will carry through for their whole lives. If you had kids knowing you will likely CTB then you would be extremely selfish and in my opinion a downright evil SOB.

Oh they would be left with considerable money to keep them comfortable until they hit 18, and a house...

 

[Funeralprincess]

@Funeralprincess thank you so eloquently explaining that in fact, you are a run-of-the-mill golddigger. Case closed. Not sure why you are on this forum. It is not intended for happy golddiggers who have landed a successful man.

Anyone can be suicidal. There's people on this forum that are well off, you realize that right? I mean of course the poor such as yourself are expected to be here, that's a given, but people in higher income brackets can and do commit suicide. Look at Anthony Bourdain, Stephanie adams, Clay Adler… the list goes on There's people here who are married that want to die. Just like you don't decide what type of man women marry, you also don't get to decide who develops suicidal thoughts; you don't have the finances or power to make such decisions, and anyways suicide is not only for the poor like yourself; well off people commit suicide all of the time for various reasons

No need to wonder, you'd fuck them up. Your kids would not only mourn your loss forever but you would also deny them the fatherly guidance and protection that they NEED growing up. Not to mention you'd be dooming them to poverty and financial instability which will carry through for their whole lives. If you had kids knowing you will likely CTB then you would be extremely selfish and in my opinion a downright evil SOB.

He doesn't want to work hard to make more money lol. He has stated how he views women but expects them to procreate with him and then he'd kill himself and leave them AND the babies in poverty. Evil is putting it nicely; it's downright animalistic and diabolical.
Liberal men have gotten out of control and quite frankly, it's a blessing people are smart enough not to lay with this type of human being.

No need to wonder, you'd fuck them up. Your kids would not only mourn your loss forever but you would also deny them the fatherly guidance and protection that they NEED growing up. Not to mention you'd be dooming them to poverty and financial instability which will carry through for their whole lives. If you had kids knowing you will likely CTB then you would be extremely selfish and in my opinion a downright evil SOB.

He doesn't want to work hard to make more money lol. He has stated how he views women but expects them to procreate with him and then he'd kill himself and leave them in poverty. Evil is putting it nicely; it's downright animalistic and diabolical

 

[Funeralprincess]

@Funeralprincess thank you so eloquently explaining that in fact, you are a run-of-the-mill golddigger. Case closed. Not sure why you are on this forum. It is not intended for happy golddiggers who have landed a successful man.

I have to remind you, you don't have the funds to make such big demands on who women get to date, and you also don't have the funds to make big demands on who is suicidal either. It is expected poor mysoginistic men are suicidal so it makes sense why YOU are here, but well off people can be suicidal too. There are well off people here that are married that want to die…I've spoken to them. Look at Anthony Bourdain, Stephanie Adams, Clay Adler, list goes on. Well off people can kill them selves and often do just as much as you bottom feeders do :) you don't decide who gets to commit suicide, sorry little guy

No need to wonder, you'd fuck them up. Your kids would not only mourn your loss forever but you would also deny them the fatherly guidance and protection that they NEED growing up. Not to mention you'd be dooming them to poverty and financial instability which will carry through for their whole lives. If you had kids knowing you will likely CTB then you would be extremely selfish and in my opinion a downright evil SOB.

He doesn't care lol. He hates women and believes he should get a hot girl that will allow him to abuse her, and then she should give him kids as he works a slave wage job. He then would kill himself and leave them ALL in deep poverty! Describing him as evil is putting it way to nicely. Liberal men have gotten out of control

 

[Forever Sleep]

My Mum died of natural causes when I was 3 and I don't think you ever 'get over it.' That's natural causes- I expect it would have felt even worse if she had chosen to leave.

I greatly pitty parents who have children and then become suicidal but I honestly can't get my head around people who are suffering with depression and/or suicidal thoughts wanting to bring children into the world. I guess it's a biological drive and maybe they believe that the love they will share with that child will 'save' them. It just seems like such a risk to me though. I believe depression is genetic- so I wonder if they worry the child will end up the same as them. Unless there's a complete turn-around, there's every likelihood the child will witness the parent in extreme distress at some point and ultimately, it might not be enough and the parent may choose to abandon the child anyway and ctb.

I'm afraid I do have a very skewed perspective on things probably. I know everyone's circumstances are different, so I shouldn't really judge. Still, I think if ctb is a likely, those of us without children are actually better off. Less people to hurt.

 

[4hrs50min]

I have siblings with kids and they (siblings) have the better mental health so evolution made sure the one with bad mental health did not I guess. I think if I was on the line as only option continuing the genes I'd feel pressure.. but. I think I feel more like it's my responsibility to not create something similar to me due to the risk of more suffering

 

[woknows]

OP if you gonna kill yourself, do not be selfish and bring kids into this world just to feed your ego. Your genes are nothing special and there will be no big loss.

On the topic of women who are after money. I am not sure why any successful man would settle for a woman without any prospects and who is suicidal to boot. That is a hard pass for any normal guy, let alone for someone with lots of options. I think that such women should not be selfish and skip on children too.

 

[Funeralprincess]

OP if you gonna kill yourself, do not be selfish and bring kids into this world just to feed your ego. Your genes are nothing special and there will be no big loss.

On the topic of women who are after money. I am not sure why any successful man would settle for a woman without any prospects and who is suicidal to boot. That is a hard pass for any normal guy, let alone for someone with lots of options. I think that such women should not be selfish and skip on children too.

Just because you have money doesn't mean you have lots of options. There are other qualities women look for as well, so cash doesn't mean your options are in abundance. Secondly, the CDC found women are more likely to seek treatment in terms of therapy than men, hence meaning we have a better chance at recovery pending the situation at hand, so we absolutely can have kids and we are the ones who carry them anyways, not men. Well off men do not care about prospects the way you poor men do because they are financially stable on their own. Poor men have to care about resources because you all are poor and most of you are too lazy to get more money hence why you're poor in the first place.
Well off men care about one thing: looks.
That is what they care about which is why you see a LOT of their wives tend to not be neurotypical, most of them have some form of mental health issues and if they are neurotypical they will have some other flaw. They care about how you look; that is what matters to them. If they cared about personality, they'd be with a homely looking woman, because as a woman who is attractive I'll admit, most attractive women do not have personalities because they do not have to. That's why you'll commonly see the stereotype of all beautiful women being crazy consistently spoken on. There is, well, some truth to that. In my experience, you have the men who only work on making more money but have no personality, and then you have the most beautiful women who invest everything into their looks and have no personality so, they go together perfectly. Well off men like looks because it's status to them.
Very rarely will you find wealthy men and beautiful women that are also emotionally rounded.
But you're in poverty so neither are things that you'll have to worry about.

Losing the chance to create life actually is a big loss. But it's also better if people like him do not reproduce so the failure to create life in this case benefits society

 

[akana]

its one of the constants that kept me alive in the first place so yes it feels horrible n I do not want to face that

 

[Meineendscheidung]

Depressionen sind auch vererbbar. Was auf natürlichem Wege nicht vererbbar war, wird zukünftig vererbt.
Vom Großvater über den Vater und des Kindes Vaters. Wenn man keine Kinder hat ist es besser, wenn man welche hat, dann muss man einen Brief hinterlassen. Sonst vererben es nicht die Gene, sondern das erlebte.