Caring to much?

[Myforevercharlie]

Anyone here with the same problem? I really get attracted to some persons really easily. Not in the romantic sense of way ( always), but still i feel love and care. And then someone just dissappears. Even if they promised not to. Im very aware most people here want /need to ctb. I accept that. But telling me your life, means something to me. I feel very rejected and horrible when someone leaves without even saying goodbye. And yes, i am a very caring feeling person.

 

[CatholicGuilt]

Yes, I super get this. My whole life is just one rejection after another. Eventually I'm too much for everyone.

 

[sadgirl2002]

I have the same problem, I'm too caring and it's the cause of my pain. I've done nothing but love and care for others too much, I hate it now. Everyone left me and I'm alone, they told me that they would never leave me and they will always be there for me... and then they leave me. Even if they say goodbye, it doesn't mean they go back on their word. Sometimes, I wish I didn't care at all... that way, I wouldn't go through so much suffering.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I'm so sick of being left alone, don't fucking promise me then!

 

[mediocre]

Yes I even feel that way on SS sometimes. I try to connect with people but they don't give much in return :(

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

Im very aware most people here want /need to ctb. I accept that. But telling me your life, means something to me. I feel very rejected and horrible when someone leaves without even saying goodbye.

It's shitty and painful when people do it irl, and even on here if they develop a more intimate relationship via PM. But the nature of this site is to get information to commit suicide, everything else is peripheral.

It's also a bit of a reality show that can heighten emotions and feelings of interconnectedness, and for someone who has permeable boundaries, or the other-focused functioning of co-dependence, it's an environment that will kick their emotional ass. For such people, I do not recommend.

 

[Mr2005]

Anyone here with the same problem? I really get attracted to some persons really easily. Not in the romantic sense of way ( always), but still i feel love and care. And then someone just dissappears. Even if they promised not to. Im very aware most people here want /need to ctb. I accept that. But telling me your life, means something to me. I feel very rejected and horrible when someone leaves without even saying goodbye. And yes, i am a very caring feeling person.

Yes and contrary to some peoples bullshit views it's not weakness. It makes life harder. Not carings for cowards. I'll continue caring even about those fuckers