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im very new to this site and find it a bit confusing to navigate. one thing that bothers me is that when i click on someones profile, i get a message saying i dont have permission to view the page. is this because im a new user or is this universal? help is greatly appreciated
 
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SVEN

I Wish I'd Been a Jester Too.
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im very new to this site and find it a bit confusing to navigate. one thing that bothers me is that when i click on someones profile, i get a message saying i dont have permission to view the page. is this because im a new user or is this universal? help is greatly appreciated
As far as I know that's a standard setting, the member has to positively open their profile. If they don't I believe it remains closed as the standby position.
This is your own profile when clicked on ... IMG 5267
 
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anesthetized

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As far as I know that's a standard setting, the member has to positively open their profile. If they don't I believe it remains closed as the standby position.
This is your own profile when clicked on ...View attachment 168890
thank you for explaining
 
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darksouls

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👋 hello you are welcome 💙
 
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5_5

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Jun 15, 2025
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i can't see them either. the friend who introduced me to the site said it had to do with your experience- or something of the sort
 
bankai

bankai

Visionary
Mar 16, 2025
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i can't see them either. the friend who introduced me to the site said it had to do with your experience- or something of the sort
The default setting on the site for all users is to keep the profile invisible to others. To make your profile visible, you have to go into your account settings and change the setting.
 
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The default setting on the site for all users is to keep the profile invisible to others. To make your profile visible, you have to go into your account settings and change the setting.
ahhh- i see. check mine?
 
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looking4partner

Srry for bad social skills, likely autistic & ADHD
Oct 11, 2024
175
Some people's profiles are private, but some are public. I think it was about 50/50 of the usernames I clicked on last time I was here.

I agree that this website is extremely confusing. I literally just spent an hour trying to find how to get to the button that says log in. And trying to find a thread reply with a photo in it because that's the only way I can remember getting the "log in" page to pop up.

I also have mental & cognitive disorders and disabilities (other than ADHD & autism) that affect my ability to do anything such as reading, concentrating, & being able to focus to figure out a problem, and remembering what I'm doing while I'm doing.

Sorry to hijack the thread, but does anyone know how to make an original post on this website? Who could list directions in very simple steps?

I'm trying to figure out what section to post questions about how to use the website in, but I can't even figure out how to get to what the list of topics is that the threads are organized into.

Also, does anyone know what happened to the "Partners" category thread?

I remember seeing it before the UK ban notification was on here. And IDK if that affected what is visible somehow because I am in the U.S., but I can't see that category on the forum page anymore.
 
bankai

bankai

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Mar 16, 2025
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Sorry to hijack the thread, but does anyone know how to make an original post on this website? Who could list directions in very simple steps?

I'm trying to figure out what section to post questions about how to use the website in, but I can't even figure out how to get to what the list of topics is that the threads are organized into.

Also, does anyone know what happened to the "Partners" category thread?

I remember seeing it before the UK ban notification was on here. And IDK if that affected what is visible somehow because I am in the U.S., but I can't see that category on the forum page any
To make an original post you will see a post thread button on top,click that,while posting it will give you the option to choose which section you want to post the thread in as well,

IMG 3277


Here's the partners thread,

 
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To make an original post you will see a post thread button on top,click that,while posting it will give you the option to choose which section you want to post the thread in as well,

View attachment 170234


Here's the partners thread,


Thank you so much for your help :)

Would you be able to send a link to the page from the photo also?

I can't figure out or how to get to that page (or remember how if I was there in the past)
 
bankai

bankai

Visionary
Mar 16, 2025
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Thank you so much for your help :)

Would you be able to send a link to the page from the photo also?

I can't figure out or how to get to that page (or remember how if I was there in the past)


If you hit that lightning Icon on the very top right hand corner and then click new posts you'll get there.
 
zengiraffe

zengiraffe

Student
Feb 29, 2024
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A year ago, or even just a few months ago, the default was that everyone's profile was visible. I think forum administrators changed the default to invisible only somewhat recently.
 

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