Shades of Grey

Shades of Grey

Student
Jun 17, 2020
183
Gallows humor keeps me going.

I absolutely joke about suicide, and get through the anniversary of a loved one's very public suicide (that coincides with suicide prevention week) via black humor every single year. If my (nonexistent) memoirs were the subject of a movie, I like to think it would essentially be a darkly humorous comedy about chronic, treatment-resistant mental illness and suicide. Because sometimes, I have no choice but to laugh at the utter absurdity of it all.

Different people cope in different ways. This is mine. That said, I keep it to myself unless I know the other party shares my feelings, as I know this is a very sensitive subject and I don't want to hurt others.
 
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ronigail9

Student
Oct 5, 2019
156
I dunno but the idea of it makes me laugh, like its the punchline of a joke. Am I just manic?
I think it can be funny like if I was in acid or mushrooms I would frequently laugh on deep ass shit as if it was perfectly logical
 
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Captive of Mind

Captive of Mind

Memento mori
Aug 11, 2020
409
It's alright if we want to joke about our own suicides or try to lighten the mood but not when it comes to other people's. Most people are in a really dark place when they choose to ctb.
I one hundred percent agree with this.

I often times look at the whole situation of modern human life as some sick joke being told by the universe. I'm glad I find some dark humor in it, because it would be a lot worse if I didn't. But I'm also aware that this is a tender subject and I don't want to disrespect others if they don't share this view.
 
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MrBigSad

MrBigSad

Experienced
Sep 30, 2020
216
Gonna go against the grain here and say it's all one big joke. It can be funny. That's why I wanna cbt on April fool's
 
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Meretlein

Meretlein

Moderator
Feb 15, 2019
1,199
I laugh at all sorts of uncomfortable things but that is different than finding something truly funny. I could never find my own death truly funny. To me even dark humor lifts me up a bit.
 
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SHThrowAway213

SHThrowAway213

That's the hell I live with
Apr 19, 2018
658
It can be, depending on your sense of humor.
I find my first attempt funny, just because I was 12 and it was with an elasticed skipping rope so as soon as I tried I just fell to the ground.
 
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BridgeJumper

BridgeJumper

The Arsonist
Apr 7, 2019
1,194
Yes, it can be funny



When its my own suicide.
And I love those edgy suicide memes

God, Im so tired of this existence Im just sitting out there laughing maniacally because my life is such a farce its funny :')
 
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laura fines

laura fines

Member
Oct 4, 2020
65
I dunno but the idea of it makes me laugh, like its the punchline of a joke. Am I just manic?
it can not be funny to me, i have family
i am going to cause suffering to people
zero fun
 
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jing

Slowly discovering my place here in this world.
Oct 9, 2020
35
I know it's a serious issue for others but I hope my death will not be taken that seriously. I hope people celebrate and find ways of laughing at my eventual demise. Cause lord knows my life has been nothing but a big fat joke
 
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feast or famine

feast or famine

Tell Patient Zero he can have his rib back.
Jun 15, 2020
313
Humor is the only way I cope with life. And I joke about everything, including dark, morbid things.
 
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Soulless Angel

Soulless Angel

Did someone say Rum?
Jul 6, 2020
1,272
humour has it's place, and in personal circumstances then if you wish to make it light then do so, but never joke or make light of someone elses, as you could end up causing serious offence.
This morning, I got marketing post.... life insurance, I made a joke to my husband wondering whether I should get myself covered, he half laughed, said doubt they cover suicides but whats the small print.
in the right times to can lighten a dark time, but it has to be right, not done in a nasty way
 
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Mm80

Mm80

Enlightened
May 15, 2019
1,604
I had the same interpretation.
Yeah same here, baa baa. Dont think op meant it as it came across.
I went to the library the other day and asked if they had any books about how to commit suicide.
The librarian said we had loads but we tend to lend them out and never get them back.
 
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Lux

Lux

Member
Sep 17, 2020
61
Well yeah, my friends laugh at my suicide jokes. I don't think they get why I make them tho. It's really hard for me to talk to people who I know so I hide behind jokes.
 
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TheSomebody

TheSomebody

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Sep 28, 2020
283
Yes, It can. If life can be funny or being born can be funny, then why does death always have to be depressing? If living and dying are two insignificant things, then neither needs to be taken seriously.
 
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LonelyDude15

LonelyDude15

Currently Spiraling
Sep 26, 2020
277
Personally I think it's HILARIOUS
 
Jon86

Jon86

Specialist
Apr 9, 2018
369
Can, rape, abortion, murder, car accidents or torture be funny? I think you can joke about anything in your own mind, although it would be hard to tell a joke on stage where people would laugh about such subjects. Suicide is probably easier to joke about than any of those other topics. I don't really find suicide funny although I laugh about it at times, more-so I laugh at the absurdity of life itself and the self-importance of humans.
 
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TooConscious

Enlightened
Sep 16, 2020
1,152
We have to try and find humour where we can, the people insulting you for your opinions have either mistook you or seem as they want suicide to all be pain, suffering, sorrow, regret.... Haven't we had enough of that in life leading us to this...
I hope I eventually see the goof in it...

Hell, thought of using the helium tank method so at least I'll die laughing!
 
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224

Member
Oct 14, 2020
31
I dunno but the idea of it makes me laugh, like its the punchline of a joke. Am I just manic?
I find my suicidal thoughts to be hilarious and i even made jokes in my suicide letter, but I would never want another person to feel the way I feel.
 
Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
20,726
I personally think any jokes about death can be funny if executed properly. :wink:
 
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