Help Can someone in a similar situation talk to me? I have literally nothing

[katara]

I have no degree, never went to college, didn't even finish high school, guess that means I'll never get anywhere in life. I don't have friends, I don't travel or go anywhere because I have no money. Only family member I have is my mom who doesn't care about my situation at all and seems to think I'm totally fine. I don't have friends bc any online friends I make all stop talking to me eventually, even people I have met on here. I'm just tired of it all but I have no money, no car (never learned to drive either). I can't really do anything and I need to talk to someone bc I have no idea what to do. I've tried talking with people on here but they all have such normal lives like family stuff, college, events, normal ppl things going on. I have nothing and even on here it seems impossible to find someone. I'm hoping this post might reach the person I'm looking for bc I'm really sad and I need help but idk how to do anything. Is there anyone on here who gets this? Btw don't message me if you only talk on some weird "encrypted" email shit. I know u are just trolling and it's really fucking rude.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I have no degree, never went to college, didn't even finish high school, guess that means I'll never get anywhere in life. I don't have friends, I don't travel or go anywhere because I have no money. Only family member I have is my mom who doesn't care about my situation at all and seems to think I'm totally fine. I don't have friends bc any online friends I make all stop talking to me eventually, even people I have met on here. I'm just tired of it all but I have no money, no car (never learned to drive either). I can't really do anything and I need to talk to someone bc I have no idea what to do. I've tried talking with people on here but they all have such normal lives like family stuff, college, events, normal ppl things going on. I have nothing and even on here it seems impossible to find someone. I'm hoping this post might reach the person I'm looking for bc I'm really sad and I need help but idk how to do anything. Is there anyone on here who gets this? Btw don't message me if you only talk on some weird "encrypted" email shit. I know u are just trolling and it's really fucking rude.

Well, you're in luck. I have 0 friends IRL, have no future, and mostly spend my days being a slob! I'm like a perfect match!

 

[Hollowman]

I'm in a similar situation. You can dm if you want but we'd probably just bore each other.

 

[LastNite]

Very much me, I quit school due to bullying and it making my life hell. I have no irl friends or online friends. Very awkward as well. Basically 0% chance at succeeding at anything. It's a hell.

 

[TheVanishingPoint]

I don't have much to offer either. I don't have a better story than yours, or advice to give. Just a body that gets up every day without knowing why.
If someone "similar" exists, they're not on the surface — they're in the same void we share. I'm reading you. I'm staying.

 

[Crematoryy]

You are in a NEET situation. Urgently look for any underemployment so that you don't stagnate at home; improve your hygiene (something that usually falls apart when you are not participating in society); walk outside even if you have no one to go with/nowhere to go. Explore all the possibilities around you and find out what you can change. There are no easy solutions, but I believe that you are not willing to accept this life until you get older.

 

[katara]

Well, you're in luck. I have 0 friends IRL, have no future, and mostly spend my days being a slob! I'm like a perfect match!

The not having a future part scares me, bc that's exactly what makes me worry. I guess I didn't really have much of a start tho. I have no trophies or anything to show for my life. I would make a good secret society member sense I have like no trail or trace of existence besides the very basics lol. I'll message you if that's alright and we can chat a lot of times I've posted on here I get little to no replies and I end up wondering if I'm the biggest loser on this site

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

The not having a future part scares me, bc that's exactly what makes me worry. I guess I didn't really have much of a start tho. I have no trophies or anything to show for my life. I would make a good secret society member sense I have like no trail or trace of existence besides the very basics lol. I'll message you if that's alright and we can chat a lot of times I've posted on here I get little to no replies and I end up wondering if I'm the biggest loser on this site

Oh you can call me anytime! I always reply as soon as possible, but I'm terrible at starting conversations. It can be almost anything even the letter E.

And you're no loser! Mama bear thinks you're brave and strong for doing such self-criticism even when in pain. You deserve love and hugs, honey pot!

 

[StupidCat]

There's plenty of normies in here and I encourage to talk to them rather than people similar to us.
We may share the no future, no friends, no money, no prospects lifestyle but if it's something you dread then engaging with the same people might not improve your situation at all.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

There's plenty of normies in here and I encourage to talk to them rather than people similar to us.
We may share the no future, no friends, no money, no prospects lifestyle but if it's something you dread then engaging with the same people might not improve your situation at all.

I thought people liked SaSu because you could interact with others that had similar hardships than you? This is a place where one's friends, money or future don't matter, only what you do and say here. We are here to support each other, and "normies" just couldn't help us, it seems.

 

[StupidCat]

I thought people liked SaSu because you could interact with others that had similar hardships than you? This is a place where one's friends, money or future don't matter, only what you do and say here. We are here to support each other, and "normies" just couldn't help us, it seems.

Well he stated he needed help. Not sure if someone like me/him could help him in anyway other than deepening his personal dark abyss by confirming our biases over and over.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

Well he stated he needed help. Not sure if someone like me/him could help him in anyway other than deepening his personal dark abyss by confirming our biases over and over.

If I can't help, at least I can bring comfort and reassurement via mama bear. It helps indirectly, but it still helps, and I try to be as soothing as possible. I think that's the best way to deescalate someone that is having a reeeeeal bad time. Instructions and advice will only bring them to doubt if they can do it.

At least that's my approach. @katara can say if I'm not being helpful at any time, though.

 

[StupidCat]

If I can't help, at least I can bring comfort and reassurement via mama bear. It helps indirectly, but it still helps, and I try to be as soothing as possible. I think that's the best way to deescalate someone that is having a reeeeeal bad time. Instructions and advice will only bring them to doubt if they can do it.

I suppose some people prefer the unbearable method of help which involves feelings and stuff like that.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

I suppose some people prefer the unbearable method of help which involves feelings and stuff like that.

Don't worry, I know there are other ways, but I won't try something I'm not used to. What I'm used to do is making people feel more comfortable and less anxious via reassurement. It may not always work, but it's what I'm good at!

 

[wham311]

Jesus this whole fucking neet thing is new to me, just went on Reddit and see every single post relates to me.

Don't get along with people at work, not good at stuff, humiliated , fired, self esteem crashes, no resume, stop taking care of self, now trapped.

There's no fucking way out of this. I'm 38 and it just happened. I had friends hobbies relationships my whole life, I failed them all. I've got nothing to my name anymore except a bunch of ridiculous fucking health problems and theres nothing I can do about it


A Year ago I had a great girlfriend, my body worked, hobbies, making good money in a city I loved, lost everything and now everything I say is just negative and repulsive and people just leave you in read, society doesn't want to deal with you. I live at home and have ten shirts, every interaction is people avoiding eye contact or being polite. Sister won't even look at me.

And just trapped here now. No way out

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

Jesus this whole fucking neet thing is new to me, just went on Reddit and see every single post relates to me.

Don't get along with people at work, not good at stuff, humiliated , fired, self esteem crashes, no resume, stop taking care of self, now trapped.

There's no fucking way out of this. I'm 38 and it just happened. I had friends hobbies relationships my whole life, I failed them all. I've got nothing to my name anymore except a bunch of ridiculous fucking health problems and theres nothing I can do about it


A Year ago I had a great girlfriend, my body worked, hobbies, making good money in a city I loved, lost everything and now everything I say is just negative and repulsive and people just leave you in read, society doesn't want to deal with you. I live at home and have ten shirts, every interaction is people avoiding eye contact or being polite. Sister won't even look at me.

And just trapped here now. No way out

Dearie me, you're in such a terrible position, are you not? Honey, mama is moved by your words. You've had everything, and now you lost so much you don't know what to do, how to react. Pumpkin...here, come into me. bury your face in my soft belly. *hugs*

You're such a precious thing, in a world of hurt, are you not? Oh, mama bear wishes she could do more, but she's here with you now, don't worry. *kiss on head* Mama's going to protect you and make you feel safe from those bad things, little cubbie. Just relax now, mama's here for you for as long as you want, pumpkin. *smile*