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seho_j

seho_j

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Nov 12, 2018
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I have a boyfriend of two years who loves me very much but he does not understand me. He always tries to help with self-help stuff or even philosophy youtube clips which I know is because he loves me but it still feels insulting. Like I haven't thought of those things for like 15+ years of contemplating ctb.

I want to ctb asap. However I want to make sure that I do this right, and reduce blame and guilt for my loved ones as best I can.

So my question is: Do I break up with him as soon as possible? Will that help him get over it? I know that he will neve be able to understand completely why I will ctb. How do I make it easier on him? I shouldn't have gotten into a relationship in the first place.
 
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avaruus

avaruus

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Aug 17, 2022
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Depends how far away is your ctb. If it's soon, breaking up would cause them to experience a devastating event in their life two times in a row. That's just my 2 cents.
 
SexyIncél

SexyIncél

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Aug 16, 2022
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Depends how he'll take the breakup, how you describe it to him, and what happens if you fail to ctb. I personally tend to caution against it
 
outlook56

outlook56

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Sep 24, 2023
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It happened to me that a plane crash happened. He is very happy with his life. I will not envy him. He lives his damned life in peace. I will not stay here to participate in the daily challenges.
 

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