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- Feb 4, 2024
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Did anyone else have experience with being made of fun for their birthdays? During middle and elementary school whenever I talked to someone new and I brought up my birthday, they would always point out that I'm a gemini and therefore "bad" or "untrustworthy." People would always give me a look of suspicion and kind of stop talking to me. It confused me so much because all I wanted to do was talk with someone but now I'm apparently a bad guy for being born on some random day. I avoid talking about my birthday now, but the last time I did bring it up, they said "hmm, so you're a gemini?" I never understood any of this and it has caused me so much pain. I know it sounds so stupid but I never had any friends, just acquaintances, so when I heard stuff like that I got really insecure and nervous. I soaked it up like a sponge.