I'm so unchosen that if someone were to choose me I would deny them, because they would be an outliner. I'd feel they're doing me a favor tolerating me and I want no one's pity
Cosmophobic
Experienced
- Aug 10, 2025
- 234
I feel exactly the same. I can't trust people who seem to like me. I know I'm unlikable so if someone pretends to like me they either want to use me or they pity me, and I want neither.
Different people have different values, opinions, etc. It's not inconceivable that some people would find you likeable even if you have a hard time believing it.
