Bed rotting

[divinemistress36]

Been bed rotting for 6 years now. What about you?

 

[iloverachel]

8 years

Sometimes I go to work. Or walk in the park occasionally. Or go to the shops to buy stuff

But most of my life is bed rotting

 

[rozeske]

More than I ever thought :(

 

[rozeske]

Yes ok I'll admit it, I've been wetting the bed for.....oh wait rotting...you said bed rotting . Yes I've been rotting on my bed for an average of 8-12hrs per day for the last 8 or so months.


Yessss that explains the big increase in posts after the first month or so

Noo wait️..what was that!?

 

[Meteora]

I wouldn't be able to do that without tranquillizers. I have intrusions, flashbacks, hyperarousal.... I m very anxious and can't just stay at home.
I finally took the decision to stop trying and pretending and end my life. Something must be utterly fucked up with your life if you envy the ppl who can stay in bed for days.

 

[Hotsackage]

I mean i walk the reccommended amount, other then that screw exercise lol

 

[divinemistress36]

I wouldn't be able to do that without tranquillizers. I have intrusions, flashbacks, hyperarousal.... I m very anxious and can't just stay at home.
I finally took the decision to stop trying and end my life. Something must be utterly fucked up with your life if you envy the ppl who can stay in bed for days.

I'm sorry my ptsd kicks my ass too. I agree I Hate when people say they envy me cause I get to stay at home all day. I'm like you can have my brain injury ill switch you lives

 

[soleil]

I just hit a year, complete isolation

 

[gingermacie]

Same amount, about 6 years. I've been halfway doing it since I was 10. I'm 27 and my body feels at least 40. Depression sucks.

 

[L0neW0lf]

Been bed rotting for 6 years now. What about you?

I lost myself, I am just in my existence, nothing more. I hate myself, I am done with my life

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

After graduating university in 2020 this is basically how I spent the next three years. I only just got a job because I was sick of everyone telling me to get one and now I'm not so sure I want to keep it. I want to go back to lying in bed until 2 or 3 pm every day.

 

[leavingthesoultrap]

It's been on and off with me. Longest true bed rotting went on for like 6 months

 

[Ash’Girl]

Two years consistently now.
I do get up to work but I work from home so I roll outta bed, open the laptop, and chair rot for anything between 8 and 16 hours in a day, deadline dependent.

Then immediately back to bed soon as I finish. When I'm not working, I'm in bed.

 

[Illegal Preclear]

Been on Permanent Disability since 2015. Started isolating in 2016. Fully isolated in 2019. In 2024 - with my ME/CFS I spend half the day sleeping. With my late stage Schizophrenia/brain damage - even if I'm standing or sitting up - my brain might as well be sleeping. Just a confused mess of half-thoughts and broken images. So yeah - Part bed rotting, part chair rotting, and even if I'm pacing back and forth or doing house/yard chores - I'm still rotting.

 

[Time4Peace]

Still in bed.

 

[Hollowman]

When I'm not working I'm LDARing

 

[hopeless08]

Been bed rotting for 6 years now. What about you?

It's been 8 months already, legit, just laying in bed all day, except for about an hour that I go to my moms room and sit with her just so she sees me get out of bed because it hurts her to know I'm in such a depression that I can't even get up.

 

[sserafim]

I've been a NEET for almost two years, ever since finishing college. I have no desire to enter the workforce or real world, and I wish that I wasn't expected and didn't have to. My dilemma is NEET or rope because my parents are pressuring me to get a job, and I don't want to. I'd rather die than work. My motto is "live free or die"

 

[divinemistress36]

I've been a NEET for almost two years, ever since finishing college. I have no desire to enter the workforce or real world, and I wish that I wasn't expected and didn't have to. My dilemma is NEET or rope because my parents are pressuring me to get a job, and I don't want to. I'd rather die than work. My motto is "live free or die"

You could be trophy wife but you would have socialize

 

[sserafim]

You could be trophy wife but you would have socialize

Ugh I hate socializing. I think I'll have to go the trophy wife route though because ctb is risky and not guaranteed. I don't want to fail and fuck up myself and my life

 

[divinemistress36]

Ugh I hate socializing lol. I think I'll have to go the trophy wife route because ctb is risky and not guaranteed. I don't want to fail and fuck up myself and my life

And your husband might be old enough to be your father but if it that's what it takes

 

[sserafim]

And your husband might be old enough to be your father but if it that's what it takes

Eww. I want a guy around my age. Maybe I'll get my crush to be my husband when he breaks up with his gf

 

[divinemistress36]

Eww. I want a guy around my age. Maybe I'll get my crush to be my husband when he breaks up with his gf

Is he wealthy though?

 

[sserafim]

Is he wealthy though?

Yeah, I think so. I also have other options (like a certain SS user who already left the site )

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Yeah, I think so. I also have other options (like a certain SS user who already left the site )

I hope you aren't seriously still considering the guy who admitted he got a thrill out of encouraging girls to CTB as a romantic prospect. This is some other dude who left SS right?

At that point it would be more helpful for you to start trying to directly sabotage your old crush's relationship through subterfuge (though this also isn't a good idea but it's less of a bad one).

Or you can come to the Silicon Valley and I'm sure there you'd find tons of rich Facebook, Apple, or Google types who'd love an Asian girlfriend to spoil and bestow the trophy wife life upon. You might even be able to find that in your area if you just make a profile though it's less likely they'd be rich enough there.

 

[sserafim]

I hope you aren't seriously still considering the guy who admitted he got a thrill out of encouraging girls to CTB as a romantic prospect. This is some other dude who left SS right?

At that point it would be more helpful for you to start trying to directly sabotage your old crush's relationship through subterfuge (though this also isn't a good idea but it's less of a bad one).

Or you can come to the Silicon Valley and I'm sure there you'd find tons of rich Facebook, Apple, or Google types who'd love an Asian girlfriend to spoil and bestow the trophy wife life upon. You might even be able to find that in your area if you just make a profile though it's less likely they'd be rich enough there.

No it's him. I just like him for some reason lol

How do I do that?

I heard that the guys in Silicon Valley are ugly though. I only want a hot bf. Either rich and hot bf, or nothing. I have an all or nothing mentality in life. Either I get the best of the best, or I don't do or have it at all

 

[Soon.]

Over a decade and counting. Initially, it was just depression but I was later diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that keeps me in chronic pain

 

[divinemistress36]

Over a decade and counting. Initially, it was just depression but I was later diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that keeps me in chronic pain

Chronic pain is extremely hard to deal with I'm sorry

 

[BrainShower]

I wish I could... Bed rot, that is.
The only bed I would be allowed to rot in would be a gutter in this fucked up world

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

How do I do that?

Idk maybe forge evidence that he's cheating on her and see if he comes crawling to you as a rebound. That's one example but again I don't advise going through with it.

I heard that the guys in Silicon Valley are ugly though. I only want a hot bf. Either rich and hot bf, or nothing. I have an all or nothing mentality in life. Either I get the best of the best, or I don't do or have it at all

Well maybe like ten percent of these Silicon Valley types can meet your expectations but that's still a lot of people. Many of the white ones are hella into performative wokeness so there's a chance you'd find a rich anticapitalist too (such a juicy contradiction!) You won't really know until you come here, set up an app profile, and see what there is to offer though.

I can relate to having all-or-nothing thinking though. Part of continuing to live for me has been etching out painful compromises along the way in the name of lowering standards. Up to you if that's what you decide you don't want.