opheliaoveragain
Eating Disordered Junkie
- Jun 2, 2024
- 1,465
Well, here we are again. If you had the good luck to interact with this wonderful human, you'll maybe have an idea of how this one is a bit tough, especially given the time of year, which, I know affects a lot of us in this community. The timed details were given by a trusted third party. Bear has a dear friend here, and I'd be doing Bear a disservice by not mentioning them. @Traveller12724 was an amazing friend to Bear, they talked everyday for five months and I know they are feeling this loss. Please be kind. Bear was a feisty soul but ultimately gentle and they deserve your well wishes. They were also raised with very traditional Indian (as in India, though I shouldn't have to specify) parents and it stuck, in some of their beliefs. If you're familiar, or are on the same path this thread is open for blessings etc
As per usual,
Please remain respectful.
Please do not derail the goodbye thread.
If you have a hot take on what is posted, kindly make another thread,
please leave the username out, so as to not have their goodbye thread associated with potential fear mongers and misinformation.
And finally, please do not try to source anything in this thread, thank you.
Bear was diagnosed with Interstitial cystitis, and they had run through the course of possible medical treatments. Eventually they ventured into the holistic field, they were not met with relief or answers. They saw the quality of life going forward and made the decision that made the most sense. A year and a half of trying, yet there was no real relief in sight.
This user left this plain on Dec 20/21st (stroke of midnight basically)
10:00 800mg Ibuprofen
10:26 Meto 30mg "chalky"
11:17 First SN cup
11:20 "don't feel good" - not panicking
11:25 Low moans and groans, nothing too harsh.
11:26 Breath sounds, user DID NOT throw up.
11:29 No response when called out to, only breath sounds, likely unconscious.
11:33 Definitely unconscious, deep sleep breath type snore noise
11:34 Choppy breath/more snore like sounds, things feel calm.
11:37 Deep sleep like sounds
11:40 Silence
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They fought, hard. Those days where it felt like too much during treatment, this song helped them push through. They were able to laugh about this and other things in those final moments:
Discussion is always welcome, please remain respectful.
much love, SaSu fam
~O
As per usual,
Please remain respectful.
Please do not derail the goodbye thread.
If you have a hot take on what is posted, kindly make another thread,
please leave the username out, so as to not have their goodbye thread associated with potential fear mongers and misinformation.
And finally, please do not try to source anything in this thread, thank you.
Bear was diagnosed with Interstitial cystitis, and they had run through the course of possible medical treatments. Eventually they ventured into the holistic field, they were not met with relief or answers. They saw the quality of life going forward and made the decision that made the most sense. A year and a half of trying, yet there was no real relief in sight.
This user left this plain on Dec 20/21st (stroke of midnight basically)
10:00 800mg Ibuprofen
10:26 Meto 30mg "chalky"
11:17 First SN cup
11:20 "don't feel good" - not panicking
11:25 Low moans and groans, nothing too harsh.
11:26 Breath sounds, user DID NOT throw up.
11:29 No response when called out to, only breath sounds, likely unconscious.
11:33 Definitely unconscious, deep sleep breath type snore noise
11:34 Choppy breath/more snore like sounds, things feel calm.
11:37 Deep sleep like sounds
11:40 Silence
————-
They fought, hard. Those days where it felt like too much during treatment, this song helped them push through. They were able to laugh about this and other things in those final moments:
Discussion is always welcome, please remain respectful.
much love, SaSu fam
~O
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While I didn't get the honor to know Bear, like as has already been mentioned, he was clearly well-loved. 
