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Are you single?


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lostintheloop

Enlightened
Apr 14, 2023
1,201
Always been single 🙃

I have no interest in dating as it's pointless dragging someone else in to my mess for them to then deal with my ctb. No one would want to date me anyway tbf.
 
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Spicy Tteokbokki

Spicy Tteokbokki

매운 떡볶이
Oct 11, 2020
249
What's a chaser?
Someone who is really into trans people purely because they're trans and very often for sexual reasons, and very often also only if the trans person hasn't had their surgery yet because it's more ~exotic~ that way or something.
 
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Redacted24

Might be Richard Cory... or not
Nov 20, 2023
469
I couldn't cast an honest vote for either option.
Married for 24 years but the last 6 years she's turned abusive and very much not a partner in that sense.
So I guess I'm in a relationship, but it's a bad one, and being single would be better because I'm basically single now but still contractually obligated to my warden.
Upvoting the "it's complicated" suggestion!
 
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vitbar

vitbar

Escaped Lunatic
Jun 4, 2023
494
Single atm and no plan to change it. Did always want a relationship until last few put me off the idea. If I met the right person then maybe.

It's funny: for a long time I wanted a partner, but had nobody interested in me, and now I have people interested? I'd rather not.
 
Jack25

Jack25

Member
Jul 22, 2024
30
Single. There's so much wrong with me that I don't even know where to begin finding a partner
 
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Unhumanly.

Unhumanly.

Human(less) - already quit life
Feb 24, 2023
372
have only love once and never again
 
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NaturesWomb

NaturesWomb

Take me back, Mama
Mar 26, 2025
7
I am extraordinarily blessed, as a self proclaimed ugly and fat neurospicy girlie, to have an amazing partner. He's half the reason I'm alive and sober today. The other half is pure spite
 
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JesiBel

JesiBel

protoTYPE:4rp14
Dec 5, 2024
733
Of course I'm single.. I'm a weirdo lol I have trust issues, I won't be able to be with anyone or have a healthy relationship.
 
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allmylife

allmylife

Trying to find my way...
Mar 11, 2025
21
No, I'm not. But sometimes I wish I were, would have been much easier.
 
soledad.virgen

soledad.virgen

call me sol
Dec 1, 2020
161
yeah, im really really really lonely but hey at least on the upside i dont have anyone who can stop my ctb plans 🤭
 
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Stan Swiftie

Stan Swiftie

Student
Apr 3, 2025
102
If I ever CTB, it'll be because of my forever alone & miserable pointless pathetic existence.
Briefly married over 20 years ago.
I was, to quote my ex-wife, "a worthless piece of shit.". I was a horrible husband.
God & I have punished me ever since. No relationship. Not so much as a kiss since then.
I tried one last time to find love before turning 50, but found lies from scammers instead.
Then I tried one last time to CTB before turning 50, and I failed at that too.
So, here I am... Lonely & empty til I end it.
 
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Lostmyonlyson

Lostmyonlyson

Member
Apr 11, 2025
54
Single, only casual relationships after my marriage ended in a very very bad way. Usually goes like this, meet some cool gal, I say I'm not looking for something lasting at this time, she is okay with it for a couple of months and then the pressure and demanding begins, rarely directly (only a church going girl said that if I didn't meet her family we couldn't keep going), it's usually indirectly by inserting themselves in more spheres of your life, oh well.
 
Apathy79

Apathy79

Elementalist
Oct 13, 2019
842
I've been single for over 20 years now since we broke off our engagement due to me not wanting kids and her wanting them. Was a complete hermit for almost all of that time - the single extreme I guess, no human contact at all. Now marginally more social since my hermitage burnt down in the bushfires, but not a lot. I don't really have the desire for a relationship yet though. I find being around people physically draining, even people I really like, and need lots of time alone to recharge after it these days. Very much adjusted to the hermit life. It could still happen one day - I don't think I'm undatable yet - just not used to being with people for long periods.
 
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encore

encore

she/her • BPD • rOCD
Nov 14, 2024
166
i don't believe the kind of love i want exists and i wouldn't want to put anyone through the hellish experience of dating me. i can't be normal. i don't want to date like normal people do. it's just not something i was built for. it either consumes me and the person entirely, or i don't want it.

i made the fatal mistake of being too honest and too myself with my last partner which made me feel incredibly in love and attached since he seems to have accepted and loved me for a while. i unfortunately believed it when i was told that it's a "forever thing". i'm not that naive anymore. but because of that fact, i can't afford to trust people now.

so i don't think i will date again, both because i hate most people/struggle to find them interesting & even if i did, i can't trust them anyway.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
2,251
Not single. Wish I was.
 
Subhumano

Subhumano

I dont have friends
Apr 20, 2025
169
Yes, as Ive always been
 
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Bad Ending

Bad Ending

Anhedonia and PSSD sufferer
Mar 16, 2025
84
why ? you wanna smash ?
 
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divinemistress36

divinemistress36

Angelic
Jan 1, 2024
4,713
Romantic relationships are for healthy people in mind, body, and soul. Im not best to stay away
 
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bankai

bankai

Enlightened
Mar 16, 2025
1,869
, I think my future is closer to SN than to a SO.
😁😁😁you should use that sparkling wit. you'd be surprised how many might be interested.



I am Single. I am introverted to the point where I feel being around people is draining.
 
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HereWeGo!

HereWeGo!

Please give me the guts to _ _ _ 🙏🏻
Dec 7, 2024
216
No, I'm having a wonderful girlfriend. I do really love her much. I feel really bad for making her to deal & suffer with my depression & suicidal tendencies 😥
 
FoxSauce

FoxSauce

Emotional unstable like and IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
586
Yes single but well can be by choice and by pure fear. Intimacy is something really hard for me to express.

I want a relationship but the fear of that intimate connection scares me terribly.

Plus I don't wanna drag my partner or anyone to my ups and downs. I dont want them to feel petty for me and I would t forgive myself if I dragged down anyone into my shit (I mean my moods)

Honestly I don't think i have a likeable personality

Furthermore I don't someone would consider dating someone who falls inkove instantly and want to be very close to them.
 
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Aloneandinpain

Specialist
Dec 25, 2023
312
"Single" implies that dating might be an option or it was in the past and that doesn't fit my situation. I'd maybe describe myself as forever alone seeing as I never got started with romance and almost certainly never will.
 
damienlerone03

damienlerone03

reject humanity, return to monke
May 5, 2024
1,233
I was in a relationship but she broke up with me like a month ago. A weekend later she was crying on her knees begging me back so i let her back in my life. She had broken up with me before because she no longer felt the same way. During the weekend after the breakup she realized it was the stress that made her think that and she still loved me. I forgave her but I didn't forget because it shouldn't take a break up to know that. but the weeks after were dry and mundane. She kept ignoring my texts and reels sometimes or gave one word responses which made me super paranoid, so i broke up with her this time and i actually felt super happy. I already moved on too surprisingly. Wasn't even that sad about the breakup cuz i went through worse (thats both a good and bad thing😭).

So now I am on the lookout (not so much of an active lookout, but a passive lookout) of the hawk to my tuah, the yo to my gurt, the John to my Pork, the Owen to my Kevin. You get the idea
1745297128393
 
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TheLightOfMyLife

TheLightOfMyLife

God make my life great Inc
Apr 20, 2025
35
If a woman could love me I wouldn't want to die
 
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CatLvr

Enlightened
Aug 1, 2024
1,345
God, I wish ... And if I outlive this one I swear the next man that looks sideways at me is gonna get shot. 🙄🙄🙄
 
EgoBrained

EgoBrained

One day your suffering will end
Sep 25, 2024
52
God, I wish ... And if I outlive this one I swear the next man that looks sideways at me is gonna get shot. 🙄🙄🙄
🤨 looking at you sideways, now shoot me. please?
 
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CatLvr

Enlightened
Aug 1, 2024
1,345
🤨 looking at you sideways, now shoot me. please?
Well, dear, I wish I could accommodate but jail isn't really my thing either. But you can rest assured I am a good enough shot you would not suffer. 😘 (Country girl from the great US Midwest! 😁)
 
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whywere

Illuminated
Jun 26, 2020
3,413
Married once to a gambling slot jockey who tried to financially clean me out, did not make it.

A 2nd run at it. HUM, maybe but would come with a huge prenup.

Walter
 
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CatLvr

Enlightened
Aug 1, 2024
1,345
Married once to a gambling slot jockey who tried to financially clean me out, did not make it.

A 2nd run at it. HUM, maybe but would come with a huge prenup.

Walter
Ahhhhhhh, Walter ... Just hire someone to clean once a week. It's WAY cheaper, my friend! 😘🤭🤣🤣🤣
 
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-nobodyknows-

-nobodyknows-

I will face my fate.
Jun 16, 2024
726
Watch this turn into a matchmaking thread with people checking who's single and trying to pair people up

"Hey @User, you should start talking to @otheruser I think you two would be great together!"
 
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