Discussion Are you scared your family might go after the site after you CTB ?

[Sluggish_Slump]

Honestly my parents have always blamed the internet for indoctrinating me into certain view points or opinions, even though I didn't ever say anything radical, but just became more of a sceptic of ideas that in their eyes are obvious and shouldn't be analyzed. They are very apathetic and indifferent to politics and activism etc. - so even though they will blame my CTB on access to the internet , they probably won't do anything with it and will just move on with their life without obsessing over any forums I went on.

Do you have an itch about someone in your life that might come after this site after you CTB ? Are you planning to delete all browsing history when the day comes ?

I'm kinda scared for this site because of all these pro - lifers who are trying to censor it and tear it down

 

[N33dT0D13]

No one in my family would care enough to look into my death, one "good" thing about estrangement.

 

[81-Z@P@D]

Honestly I always burst afew blood vessels in my brain when people use that excuse. As if they didn't partake in the process of the internet becoming so all encompassing.

 

[orca87]

On the contrary: what is the objective with this site? They accuse us as its members to engage each other in suicide. This is nothing I have ever seen here. In fact, I have seen more often something along the lines of "If there is doubt, don't attempt". Its just that this destructive toxic positivity of "tomorrow can become better" is lacking here.

Actually, this site is a gift and even mainstream psychologists should see it that way: its effective group therapy in the most honest sense.

I have written so much here in just a few days, in threads and in private messages. This site has not only become my therapist and my social circle, but also kind of a diary.

So, if after I ctb anyone (well could in fact just be two people) would seek closure, see how it was looking on my inside before I left, they should be my guest.

In fact, I'm even considering printing all of what I posted and messaged here for them to read. That's more than any suicidal note could possibly convey.

 

[FuneralCry]

If people fear this then they should make sure that there is no trace of this site on their device. I really doubt that this site will exist by the time I finally die, sadly I don't have any plans to leave in the near future, as after all we do exist in a world where suicide is so unnecessarily difficult. But anyway whatever happens in this world after I'm gone could never matter to me as I won't be there at this point. It does disgust me how people want to remove sites that have suicide method information on them, as without this site people would likely fail suicide attempts from attempting very unreliable methods. It's extreme cruelty to want to force people to stay here against their wishes.

 

[poa.alpina]

They would have a hard time accessing my devices/history, so they wouldn't know about this forum. Unless the ISP informs them (unlikely), I'm good.
But yeah, they would definitely blame ThE iNtErNeT for me ctb, not my health issues or anything... you know, it's not because I never wanted to be here, it's that damn internet! Lol

 

[JuliaOnTheNet]

maybe if they knew...

there was a guy fro,britain who put in his suicide note to please take down this site lol
he can end his suffering but wants to ruin it for everyone else

 

[bloop714]

I don't think so, my parents are already aware of the possible reasons, so they will move on eventually, so they won't care to look through my devices, hopefully.

 

[Elidibus]

Not one bit. I'm an adult with not that many relatives and even when there's no bad blood, pretty distant to most of them.

 

[6MillionWaystoDie]

there was a guy fro,britain who put in his suicide note to please take down this site lol
he can end his suffering but wants to ruin it for everyone else

I'm sorry I just don't believe that. The woman who claims this is the most toxic nasty individual I've ever seen. Have you seen her Twitter? I wouldn't doubt for a moment that she would lie about something like that to suit her narrative. And her buddies' account seems to have been suspended indefinitely for the same things.

If the son hated the site so much why would he be here? Why would he had "taken SaSu's advice" if that's her claim? The only way that would make sense is if he were bullied and goaded into suicide on SaSu. And if that were the case there'd be substantial conclusive evidence to show that. From what I understand and see for myself that does not exist.

There seems to be a dumb narrative that there's a secret back door here and that's why people join with some type of investigative motive. But when they quickly find there is none they revert back to their original defamatory tactics to try and grab the emotions of potential supporters. Its no different than the dishonest tactics politicians are using today to fire up their bases. As the old adage goes: I'd believe half of what I see and none of what I hear from that group.

 

[Gonnerr]

I access this site by searching it with google my search history is not activated. So i think it will be hard for them to find out. I will also use a password to open my phone.

 

[kernel_panic]

No. My hard drive is encrypted and I'll wipe my phone before catching the bus. I value my privacy, so I won't let anyone snoop around in my devices.

 

[ZeroSuitDoomgirl]

I'm worried they would if they found out about it. I'm going to do everything I can to prevent that, though, gonna wipe everything I can before I go.

 

[outrider567]

No, even if I mention the site in a suicide note along with my user name, my stepmother wouldn't care enough to read my posts here

 

[Haruka]

I doubt it, if I mentioned it in my suicide note they would come here to nose around out of curiosity and not because they care. They wouldn't do anything with the information, just be nosey like normal.

 

[Majestatea Masiva]

Nobody in my family even knows english, and even if they did, they have no idea how to interface with anything on the internet.
and even if they did that, what can they realistically do to this site? even if the police got involved, im just 1 drop in a sea of more urgent things they should focus on.

 

[borderline-feline]

My father and sister wouldn't have any way of knowing that I even use this site. The only thing that could be an issue in that regard is that I told a friend (a mutual friend of my favorite person) that I use a suicide forum, and I feel like she would tell my favorite person that if I took my life. That said, I still don't think that my favorite person would try to do anything to this site, as he's not that type of person, and he would never have enough spoons to do anything.

 

[JudasIscariot]

No, they don't care enough and know that I've been suffering for more than a decade. They never took responsibility for hurting me and let others hurt me so I know for certain they wouldn't give a shit I was on this site.

 

[GreatExpectations]

I don't care because it won't matter. The parents that try and get this site shut down don't understand it's completely pointless. There's a backup .onion link but even if this site is completely removed another one will come up. If there wasn't a demand for it before, there certainly is now. This is the internet, whether you like it or not, sites like this are here to stay.

 

[NoLoveNoHope]

Absolutely, I don't want more negative attraction on this site or finding out details about me through this site.

 

[lebrodude]

Every device will be wiped to ensure there's no link to this site.
In the month leading up to my CTB I will only access here on a burner phone which will be destroyed in the hours before.

Thats my plan anyway.

 

[Viranamari]

There isn't much they can do anyways. Personally, I don't have much of an opinion since I would already be dead by then but at the same time, other suicidal people also need to escape their suffering. I don't have any plans to end ny life yet due to the lack of accessible methods and survival instinct. But if others do have plans and fear this then they should clear their history.

 

[ASAPLeaving]

Unsure. I don't know if my mother is aware that I use this site, but I do believe I have passively mentioned it before.

If anything, my mother should champion for body swapping technology to be invented so dysphoria is easily solved for 2 people in 1 procedure. We would have a lot less dysphoric people committing suicide if they could trade bodies with each other. Of course, that's just some sci-fi shit right there, I guess.

 

[Archness]

It's a bit likely. They'll definitely pin the blame on SaSu, but I really doubt they'd spend meaningful time/effort shutting it down, tho it's possible they'd have alot of spare time at that time.

Farther will move on, siblings can't really understand ctb. Mother will really focus on "SaSu made them kys!", she always blames everything but herself when it comes to my behavioral and mental problems oof. Though it's also possible she'd basically piss on my grave, but unlikely if just soon after, as that isn't exactly "socially acceptable".

All that's assuming they find out about this site in the first place, and I am/will take measures against that.

 

[User00]

It wont happen, would reset my phone to default so my family wont know about this site and blame it, since my phone is what i use. I dont want this site to be the blame, it isnt the blame for me wanting to ctb, its been good here and it has some positive affect on me and a lot of people here are kind and understanding to others more than people not on this forum are.
Edit: This site would def never be a suspect though regardless, theyre clueless about the internet and dont use it often or even know how to use it. But Id take extra measures so it doesnt get blamed.

 

[Catastrofe]

In the case I'll ctb, I will do my best to delete any activity I had here, so not to be linked to this forum. Honestly I do value this place a lot, and do not want it or its members to get any damage.