i'm nonbinary (afab if it matters) and gay. i feel bi sometimes, my friends don't believe me lmao so it's just a running joke at this point. everyone around me is gay and/or trans. my parents treat me just like my straight siblings. they actually knew before i did i believe, and tried to get me to come out knowing they are perfectly okay with it. they don't know i'm nonbinary but probably have no idea what that is so i just let them use she/her and given name. we don't really talk about identities or anything personal. i'm unsure how my extended family thinks of me. i know they would not want their children to be gay so it feels inherently uncomfortable to be around them (yay to my uncle's family who's in town bc they love the 4th). my brother in law has said some homophobic things, but i was younger then and didn't say anything. i'd give him a verbal beating if he said anything now.