Anyone here an escort or have insight?

[Sleeper System]

I'm so broken that I can't even have an intimate relationship with another person like most people. I don't do it all the time but once in awhile I hit up the sites and find a girl who's time I can buy if you know what I mean. I must be a complete weirdo in there eyes. I don't moan or make a sound. I just let it happen and watch them as if im trying to learn something profound.

I was just curious if anyone here could relate as either an escort or client and give some insight about how they view one another and if there is anything worth mentioning.

It would be a great help in just getting me through another difficult day where all I want to do is just go to sleep and never wake up.
I'm not looking for judgement or anyone telling me it's going to be ok. I just want people who can relate.

 

[tiredofbreathing]

Im F and went to a cuddle therapist because I been so isolated. She told me during it she was bi and was an escort and seemed to offer it for more but I delclined because I was only looking for cuddles. Lately I been thinking of going to an escort tho also because I feel so depraved of human touch. I don't think there is anything wrong with it if it's consensual and there isn't any human trafficking. Make sure they work independently and don't go to an Asian massage parlor because that can be human trafficking

 

[Live and Let Die]

went to a cuddle therapist

I wish I knew this was a thing earlier, I've been so deprived and lonely, and it's just blegh. Cuddling with someone would be so nice right now.

Edit: APPARENTLY THIS IS COMMON KNOWLEDGE NOW AND I'VE JUST BEEN IN THE DARK ABOUT IT THE ENTIRE TIME.
Edit 2: NOT ONLY THAT BUT ITS AN OFFICIAL MEDICAL PRACTICE HERE? WHAT??????

 

[Dr.Sleep (Im tired)]

Im F and went to a cuddle therapist because I been so isolated. She told me during it she was bi and was an escort and seemed to offer it for more but I delclined because I was only looking for cuddles. Lately I been thinking of going to an escort tho also because I feel so depraved of human touch. I don't think there is anything wrong with it if it's consensual and there isn't any human trafficking. Make sure they work independently and don't go to an Asian massage parlor because that can be human trafficking

not only is going to an escort illegal in most nations, it will negatively impact you broski. Sex has a emotional value tied to it (both for males and females), it will really fuck you up when you realize that they are only seeing you for money.

 

[tiredofbreathing]

not only is going to an escort illegal in most nations, it will negatively impact you broski. Sex has a emotional value tied to it (both for males and females), it will really fuck you up when you realize that they are only seeing you for money.

I don't really get the stigma against sex workers tho. If it is consensually and safe why shouldn't people should be able to make money how they choose. I'm aware they see you for money. That's why I thought of it actually because I don't want any questionable boundaries. But thanks for letting me know because it's always good to keep in mind. Probably not good to see someone more than once. I probably won't even end up doing tho due to some things. Cuddling is good tho

 

[TheSDMan]

not only is going to an escort illegal in most nations, it will negatively impact you broski. Sex has a emotional value tied to it (both for males and females), it will really fuck you up when you realize that they are only seeing you for money.

This is very wrong.
If you live somewhere it is legal, (I do in Austria), you simply have to search for escorts that offer Girlfriend Experience.

I am seeing one for 5 times now in 3 weeks, and sometimes we just do cuddle and talk about my issues, feel like we know each other for years like any good friend. She is even trying to push me to go out more and try to go see doctors again so I can improve.

So basically, no, escorts does not mean pure raw unemotional sex.

To reply to OP, I was scared shitless I thought I would get a heart attack just texting her and waiting the first day. Having social anxiety and many chronic issues that feel like barriers to me. I was just honest and (luckily, you can always try multiple ones), she was extremely kind and "acted" instantly like she was my (girl)friend.

It did not make me feel bad at all like some people say, as my logic is the following: I will die, I suffer too much, I have money, I feel alone since 2 years, what do I have to lose? Nothing. At worst you get bad sex or no sex or argue and he/she leaves, just try another one. At beast you get amazing sex, or good cuddles and a good talk.

So if you have some money and feel at the end of your rope, just go for it. Be just ready mentally to tell yourself "even if I have an amazing time, let's not forget she is not my friend, I won't be able to text him/she all the time and it will cost money to see again".