Anyone else want to not write a note and just up and leave without notice to your death?

[NefariousWish]

My parents are the only people in my family I care about, so i'd have to write a note. Unfortunately, my mom could easily make it to her 90s. That's another 20 yrs. That's too long.

They wouldn't stay quiet regarding my death. They would spread it to everyone they know. Most of those are people I don't like or have no relationship with.

I want no one to know what becomes of me, and it makes me furious that I have to wait to have my perfect end.

 

[Pan]

I agree. I am alienated from my own family. Part of me feels that they don't deserve anything, and that my little dog should inherit my estate: the $$$$$ can go to his care and upkeep.

 

[deadpixels]

I just want to be instantly disintegrated, that's it, one moment I'm here, then I'm not here anymore, but that's not how things work...

 

[NefariousWish]

I agree. I am alienated from my own family. Part of me feels that they don't deserve anything, and that my little dog should inherit my estate: the $$$$$ can go to his care and upkeep.

I don't hate my family. I just don't care about them or most people for that matter. My parents are the exception.

I just want to be instantly disintegrated, that's it, one moment I'm here, then I'm not here anymore, but that's not how things work...

Apples to oranges. Your example is ridiculous. Leaving without a note is definitely something that can and does happen all over the world.

 

[Tintypographer]

You know, I just quit a job one time, no notice, just quit and walked off. I've dreamed of doing that to my current job
Dreamed of disappearing from my life and home, and dreamed of simply vanishing dead and gone with no body found. No more, no plans no explanation. I think about the Golden gate bridge and jumping off it late at night in dark clothes with the hope that my body washes out to sea and is never found. No closure. I don't really want there to be a why. Everyone can just stop depending on me. I'm no longer there to solve their problems. Anything that was supposed to be done can be done by everyone else.

 

[deadpixels]

I don't hate my family. I just don't care about them or most people for that matter. My parents are the exception.

Apples to oranges. Your example is ridiculous. Leaving without a note is definitely something that can and does happen all over the world.

you mentioned

I want no one to know what becomes of me,

That's what I was relating to.
How is that ridiculous? If your body if found, people will know what happened to you

 

[NefariousWish]

you mentioned


That's what I was relating to.
How is that ridiculous? If your body if found, people will know what happened to you

lol I didn't think people would think I meant literally everyone. What do I care about some mortician who puts me in a drawer?

You know, I just quit a job one time, no notice, just quit and walked off. I've dreamed of doing that to my current job
Dreamed of disappearing from my life and home, and dreamed of simply vanishing dead and gone with no body found. No more, no plans no explanation. I think about the Golden gate bridge and jumping off it late at night in dark clothes with the hope that my body washes out to sea and is never found. No closure. I don't really want there to be a why. Everyone can just stop depending on me. I'm no longer there to solve their problems. Anything that was supposed to be done can be done by everyone else.

I walked off a job without notice once. It was great.

What's stopping you from fulfilling your death wish?

 

[RayoSinSol]

My last words would probably be as useless as my words in life.

Might leave my (romantic) partner a note to let him know that I won't be coming back, so he doesn't have to send out a missing persons report or anything.

Might text my best (and basically only) friend a goodbye. Maybe not.

The reason I want to close my eyes is because I'm tired of saying and tired of seeking answers. Writing a note just wouldn't really be anything but another opportunity for me to be more deeply misunderstood and/or disliked in death.

 

[autumnal]

I agree. I am alienated from my own family. Part of me feels that they don't deserve anything, and that my little dog should inherit my estate: the $$$$$ can go to his care and upkeep.

FYI you can generally leave money for the care of and instructions regarding animals in your legally witnessed will.

 

[BPD Barbie]

This is now my plan as saying goodbye is just too hard and something I don't want to add to an already hard process.

 

[NefariousWish]

This is now my plan as saying goodbye is just too hard and something I don't want to add to an already hard process.

But how will your parents or whoever discover that you're dead without a note?

 

[Bct]

Dreamed of disappearing from my life and home, and dreamed of simply vanishing dead and gone with no body found. No more, no plans no explanation.

I also want this too, and also memories about me are vanishing from people's existence. Of course that's impossible so one only can dream.

Basically, I'll just schedule some brief posts on social media that explains I'm already passed away and this is nobody's fault because I already decided it from a long time ago, so at least it will reduce people's guilt

 

[Tintypographer]

I imagine a video that shows me plummeting from the Golden Gate bridge that surfaces a month later and that's the closure. I jump in the dark, wash out to sea and I'm never found. Food for great white sharks.

 

[NefariousWish]

I imagine a video that shows me plummeting from the Golden Gate bridge that surfaces a month later and that's the closure.

Plummeting into a shark's gaping mouth.