iwantout222
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- Nov 27, 2023
- 5
So I've never had anything bad/traumatic happen to me during my childhood. Didn't lose anyone close to me, was never abused (I was hit a few times by parents but thats no reason for being the way I am.. my siblings turned out fine). I was never bullied I had a good life until I didn't. Had my first panic attack at 9 for no apparent reason and it's been a downfall since then. I'm 18 now and I'm struggling with an eating disorder, panic attacks, anxiety and self harming. The past 4-5 years are all a blur, I can't remember the last time i felt normal. I'm just completely numb now, or sad, or angry but I can't remember the last time I've been genuinely happy. Or just not unhappy. But the thing is: there's genuinely nothing that justifies me feeling this way. My parents support me, I got into a good uni (thru lots of luck tho) and I'm still like this. I'm constantly tired, depressed, can't connect with other people so I don't have friends. Every time I tried to get help I have always felt like I'm just making up things/causing my own problems. Also I feel so guilty, since there are people who went through terrible things and still live a normal life, and here I am, completely normal and I want to fucking die.
There have been suicides in my family, my mom had/has an ed and used to selfharm/tried to ctb. I had a head injury when I was little, and apparently after I was born I couldn't immediately breathe (?) so there were like 10 seconds when I wasn't breathing or something like that? Do I have some kind of brain injury that1s causing all this? Is it possible that all my issues are caused by these things? Because I could say that my ed/sh issues all are on me but there's no apparent reason for my panic attacks or me being depressed (I don't wanna say depression since I'm not diagnosed).
There have been suicides in my family, my mom had/has an ed and used to selfharm/tried to ctb. I had a head injury when I was little, and apparently after I was born I couldn't immediately breathe (?) so there were like 10 seconds when I wasn't breathing or something like that? Do I have some kind of brain injury that1s causing all this? Is it possible that all my issues are caused by these things? Because I could say that my ed/sh issues all are on me but there's no apparent reason for my panic attacks or me being depressed (I don't wanna say depression since I'm not diagnosed).