Anybody else quite literally have 0 friends?

[Proxycake]

I do not have a single acquaintance or friend to my name, I engage in so little social interaction that it is soul-crumbling. Loneliness is hallowing. I just want to know if other people have the same problem.

 

[ayanitoolz]

yeah, i have no one i talk to besides my family and coworkers. loneliness is really hard to deal with, especially when it's so easy for everyone else to make friends

 

[locked*n*loaded]

None here. No family left, either.

 

[ThatRussianDude]

Hey hey. Welcome to the club. I alienated everyone yeah but I guess thats just my nature.

 

[tulero]

1 friend from university, but I talk with him maybe once a year

so its like having 0

 

[thelastmessiah]

I have none, but I have my aging parents for now at least.

 

[Radiate_Ruby]

The last friend I had just suddenly stopped talking to me. Found a Subreddit to make online friends and talked to 4/5 people, but without success. I think of going to university to maybe make friends, but I doubt it would work.​

 

[wham311]

My homeless friend who is worried about me stopped responding bc im disturbing.

Zero.

My family wants to talk to me but I have nothing to say to them other than please help me get out of this place.

 

[SailorBlue]

I dont have friends anymore. I isolate myself too much with my depression, I dont want to make others sad.

 

[darksouls]

I never had human friends
my beloved pets were the only friends I ever had
they all left me
I miss them

 

[tulero]

I think of going to university to maybe make friends, but I doubt it would work.​

for me it worked up to some point, but got to say i had luck that the few friend i made all of them were at same pace, we coincide in the same classes

They were my 5 best years

now I have contact only with one of them, but we dont talk so much so...

 

[Radiate_Ruby]

for me it worked up to some point, but got to say i had luck that the few friend i made all of them were at same pace, we coincide in the same classes

They were my 5 best years

now I have contact only with one of them, but we dont talk so much so...

My problem is that I've got to change a lot of things in my life to be able to go to university, and I fear I won't

 

[Hollowman]

My ex best friend dissapeared on me after a 15 year friendship. Haven't had a friend like that since and I knew I'd never have another one.

 

[Alexandra0]

My only friends are my 2 flowers, I take care of them. And I want them to continue to live long after my death

 

[frayed]

Only got my mother. She's very irascible

 

[wham311]

Only got my mother. She's very irascible

Love irascible

 

[Proxycake]

My only friends are my 2 flowers, I take care of them. And I want them to continue to live long after my death

This is beautiful and I feel the same way towards my flowers and cacti.

yeah, i have no one i talk to besides my family and coworkers. loneliness is really hard to deal with, especially when it's so easy for everyone else to make friends

Yes, I see absolutely everyone talking about their 50 friends and the parties they have, the love they feel ... it just does not come for me. I'm sorry you are lonely too, it truly is just awful.

 

[thereisnoneed]

I do not have a single acquaintance or friend to my name, I engage in so little social interaction that it is soul-crumbling. Loneliness is hallowing. I just want to know if other people have the same problem.

me, i can't even have a short talk with my own father, let alone making friends I.R.L

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

Other than family and online friends I don't think I would be missed for months if I were to vanish.

 

[just_so_done]

I do a phenomenal job of pushing everyone away. The ones that try and stay eventually see the real me and I'm too much for them. Guess it's better not to have people close to me, all I ever do is hurt them and make things worse. I'm meant to be alone with the darkness.

 

[BlueLock]

Yep. Well technically I have my brother who I'm good friends with but I am quite lonely. If it makes you feel better there have been studies on loneliness and it's much more common than people like to think. Across all ages (and most depressingly, in a lot of young people) people are lonely. We aren't even alone in being lonely.

 

[Lost21]

Never had a friend in my life

 

[starboy2k]

no friends here and where I am in life there's no point in having any either.

 

[amerie]

My problem is I'm good at making friends (that is if people even want to talk to me in the first place) but I suck at keeping them because my expectations are too high (I'm that one friend who's too "woke") or they stop finding me funny or interesting after a while and I get ghosted.

Maybe this is just a normal part of growing up, but I'm so envious of people who have the friends for years and live without the crippling fear of people getting tired of them when they realize that they're not funny and chill but actually a loser femcel who's only funny in the moment (barely.)

 

[Pluto]

 

[LetMeOut67]

Yes pretty much
I had friends but now I don't want any and they've gone down a different road

 

[cemeteryismyhome]

Zero friends here. A long time ago it used to hurt. Now I prefer it that way.

 

[SchizoGymnast]

That's a hard question for me to answer because I think I have a bunch of friends, but I feel like every time I'm in need, they're nowhere to be found. So is that really a friend? Plus I have terrible rejection sensitivity, so I always think that people merely tolerate me, as opposed to loving me.

 

[kitkat9234]

I have no one. It's like I'm in solitary confinement but I am actually free. Often times I go crazy because it's just me myself and I.

Barely socialize with my coworkers when im actually in the office (work from home part time). I have nothing to say - no substance whatsoever. No one would even notice if I was gone.

 

[wham311]

I have no one. It's like I'm in solitary confinement but I am actually free. Often times I go crazy because it's just me myself and I.

Barely socialize with my coworkers when im actually in the office (work from home part time). I have nothing to say - no substance whatsoever. No one would even notice if I was gone.

I relate