Yeah I agree that you either are or aren't made for this world. But things aren't always unfixable, at least for certain people. I mean I don't see a way out for myself but that's not necessarily the case for everyone. And really dude? I'll never be a man because I'm a 24 year old virgin? I already am a man lol. If there's one thing I can't stand, It's this whole REAL MAN bullshit.
I admire you understand so well without judgement, see there is real manhood? Stoic expression at least. I agree with
@WhatPowerIs above, but disagree too. If there would be a real man, you have to be one your way.
But also to say there isn't and that stoic calmness is only needed is wrong, somewhat, as well as being born a man is enough. We don't remember Burt Reynolds just for being born, do we? Neither we put the Big Lebowski or Sam Eliott near Buzz Lightyear, or the Narrator next to Tyler Durden for a reason.
Now, you seem to have taken what somebody might call easier way, by having your own way in seeking a solution to this problem for others, or at least finding hapiness for othersm which is indeed not nearly as easy, in fact likely more impossible in a world obsessed with overconfidence and attention-seeking. Indeed it is admirable.
But still, to not reproduce or to never participate in society in this way is soul-crushing precisely because we are men. It makes or breaks us and is indeed, losing your manhood, a part of being a human, it's no coincidence you need a very specific departure from the material world, like religious and spiritual students do, to overcome it. It's undortunately one of the unmanliest things to do.
Don't get me wrong, I am around your age, I have never even been looked at by a woman other than as a balding, poor, and massive lump or fat. I never know what being a man really is, closest to being stoic, but not even that. It's probably just a privilege of men fortunate to have a secure life and before all, good looks and great personalities, but it definitely exists.
I myself see no solution to never having remotely any success, other than the one that is upon all of us.