murderatruemorgue
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- Feb 17, 2024
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As a kid, a teen, even through my 20s I was never as angry as I am now. All the time I'm angry, irritable, frustrated. Every little thing makes me so mad. I get frustrated at people, my pets, inanimate objects, time itself... I don't know what it feels like to be happy anymore.
We have this narrative culturally of the '5 Stages of Grief' but most people don't realize that Kübler-Ross was studying the effect of grief on terminally ill patients, not those they left behind. Her initial study and book delved into 5 stages people MAY experience in confronting their own upcoming death (not hard and fast rules) as a way to de-stigmatize the experience. She did do further study into more general grief later on, but at that point people had gone and run with her original studies in directions she never intended.
Do you experience times of anger in grieving your own death? So utterly frustrated at the world and the powers that be that you should have a had a life and brain that could be content if not happy? Just utterly done with everyone else and their petty frustrations? Just me?
We have this narrative culturally of the '5 Stages of Grief' but most people don't realize that Kübler-Ross was studying the effect of grief on terminally ill patients, not those they left behind. Her initial study and book delved into 5 stages people MAY experience in confronting their own upcoming death (not hard and fast rules) as a way to de-stigmatize the experience. She did do further study into more general grief later on, but at that point people had gone and run with her original studies in directions she never intended.
Do you experience times of anger in grieving your own death? So utterly frustrated at the world and the powers that be that you should have a had a life and brain that could be content if not happy? Just utterly done with everyone else and their petty frustrations? Just me?