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stilldreaming
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- Aug 30, 2021
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I read in the Washington Post several years ago an op ed about how beautiful it can be to help your parent die. With her body failing and unable to leave the medical facility, the journalist's beloved mother decided it was time to say goodbye before things got even worse.
I don't recall the possibility of physician-assisted suicide even being mentioned in the article, instead they went straight to starvation/dehydration for this beloved mother. There was even an official term for this, assumably so it can be approved by the doctors so that they don't put the patient on an IV to give them sustenance.
And, how wonderful was this experience of caring for her mother during her twilight days. Talking to her, listening to her, helping to moisten her lips with a sponge to deal with the discomfort of how cracked they become from lack of hydration.
It was like reading some sort of horror story. I would've expected it to be a cautionary tale about why assisted suicide for dying patients should be legalized in every state (instead of just a handful), because otherwise you'll have to sit by as your cherished family member starves to death. But no, this was a lovely experience. And so many comments backed it up, other middle-aged ladies who also thought it was so beautiful to help their mothers die in this gruesome way.
You ever get that feeling sometimes like the world is so insane, and yet almost everyone is fine with it? And like you need to take crazy pills to fit in?
Considering how Dr Kevorkian used to be a boogeyman in the US, it's a wonder that any states today allow assisted suicide for medical reasons. I used to believe that slowly more and more states will allow it for medical reasons as well, but considering the theocratic turn in the US in the red states, maybe not. I don't understand why religious people are so terrified of death, but there you have it. They claim to care about the 'sanctity of life' and that helping the terminally ill die would be like murder.........whilst sending their sons off to the military and war (and declaring capital punishment to be just). Remember: doctors sanctioning death is evil, but state-sanctioned murder is a-okay. (I think it says somewhere in the Bible something about not putting any nation's laws above the laws in the Bible, buuuuut it's probably somewhere toward the back, gosh who can read that far y'know?)
I don't recall the possibility of physician-assisted suicide even being mentioned in the article, instead they went straight to starvation/dehydration for this beloved mother. There was even an official term for this, assumably so it can be approved by the doctors so that they don't put the patient on an IV to give them sustenance.
And, how wonderful was this experience of caring for her mother during her twilight days. Talking to her, listening to her, helping to moisten her lips with a sponge to deal with the discomfort of how cracked they become from lack of hydration.
It was like reading some sort of horror story. I would've expected it to be a cautionary tale about why assisted suicide for dying patients should be legalized in every state (instead of just a handful), because otherwise you'll have to sit by as your cherished family member starves to death. But no, this was a lovely experience. And so many comments backed it up, other middle-aged ladies who also thought it was so beautiful to help their mothers die in this gruesome way.
You ever get that feeling sometimes like the world is so insane, and yet almost everyone is fine with it? And like you need to take crazy pills to fit in?
Considering how Dr Kevorkian used to be a boogeyman in the US, it's a wonder that any states today allow assisted suicide for medical reasons. I used to believe that slowly more and more states will allow it for medical reasons as well, but considering the theocratic turn in the US in the red states, maybe not. I don't understand why religious people are so terrified of death, but there you have it. They claim to care about the 'sanctity of life' and that helping the terminally ill die would be like murder.........whilst sending their sons off to the military and war (and declaring capital punishment to be just). Remember: doctors sanctioning death is evil, but state-sanctioned murder is a-okay. (I think it says somewhere in the Bible something about not putting any nation's laws above the laws in the Bible, buuuuut it's probably somewhere toward the back, gosh who can read that far y'know?)