myopia
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- Apr 8, 2024
- 46
For reference, my father passed away very suddenly from pancreatic cancer in early 2021. Unsurprisingly, my mother did not take his death well (she was wailing every day for months). It makes sense though, they were college sweethearts of 30 years, and she had never been with anyone else. To make matters worse, my father's family had longstanding beef with my mother, so they pretty much completely dropped us after his passing. My father's brother was supposed to be his executor of will, but he obviously didn't do his job, which meant my mother (who knows absolutely nothing about finance or law) was left to deal with it. Flash forward three years, and we're still trying to sort everything out. I came downstairs TODAY and found my mother on the phone with my dad's old employer trying to secure her survivor benefits. It's such a nightmare.
I am an only child, so if I CTB, she'll be alone. Both of her parents are dead, and while she does have 4 older brothers and a HUGE support system of friends and neighbors, I know it's not the same. After my father died, I became her whole world. When I moved away temporarily for university, she resented me immensely and claimed I was "leaving her." I don't know how she would survive this. But at the same time, I don't know how I can keep going on. I feel so empty everyday, and my life has become completely devoid of meaning. Even before my father passed, I've always known I would CTB one day, and I feel that I've finally hit that breaking point. I don't want her to hate me, but I can't keep living for her.
I am an only child, so if I CTB, she'll be alone. Both of her parents are dead, and while she does have 4 older brothers and a HUGE support system of friends and neighbors, I know it's not the same. After my father died, I became her whole world. When I moved away temporarily for university, she resented me immensely and claimed I was "leaving her." I don't know how she would survive this. But at the same time, I don't know how I can keep going on. I feel so empty everyday, and my life has become completely devoid of meaning. Even before my father passed, I've always known I would CTB one day, and I feel that I've finally hit that breaking point. I don't want her to hate me, but I can't keep living for her.
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