advice!

[Gromit-CTB]

io don't understand.

Speak to family and get help

 

[mimiopo22]

Speak to family and get help

hahahah no?
I'm an adult

 

[Sherri]

io don't understand.

Hun use your translation MG has a point.

 

[mimiopo22]

the problem isn't the English.

 

[Nymph]

the problem isn't the English.

What exactly do you not understand?

 

[Sherri]

hahahah no?
I'm an adult

The other day you mentioned you lived with your parents If I'm not mistaken mimiopo. We wanna help. But what you write makes little sense. And we feel bad because we want to understand and help you.

 

[Gromit-CTB]

hahahah no?
I'm an adult

Really!. Please you have enough advice, maybe read it and act on the advice we have given and you can get help

 

[Meditation guide]

Google translate is a good translator

It even knows "wtf".

There are just so many "what should I do" questions, every day. Or "where can I get SN?" I'm sure you can see why we are wondering what's going on. Your English grammar is excellent.

 

[Nymph]

It even knows "wtf".

Yeah it's pretty cool

 

[Sherri]

It even knows "wtf".

And yet the rest is very hard, I asked the op countless times to use the translator so we can understand so we could help the op. We undertsand you are Italian, but google translation will put what you really feel on here just copy and past. All we are trying to connect the dots with you hun. Please don't feel offended ok? We're just trying to help.

 

[mimiopo22]

don't worry...

 

[Sherri]

don't worry...

Ok if that's what you feel I respect that. We were just giving you a friendly advice, okay? Hugs

 

[mimiopo22]

It even knows "wtf".

There are just so many "what should I do" questions, every day. Or "where can I get SN?" I'm sure you can see why we are wondering what's going on. Your English grammar is excellent.

I am not a spy who wants to track the site, I am a person who cannot get his messages through well because of google translate

 

[Sherri]

I am not a spy who wants to track the site, I am a person who cannot get his messages through well because of google translate

Hun Meditation didn't called you a spy. It was just trying to help out.

 

[mimiopo22]

yes, but my threads are the same as those of others, others are constantly asking for sn. my other posts are about doubts, everyone has them and asks. it looks like you think the police are behind my account. I don't want to die thinking that I also had problems on this fucking site, last place I visited

 

[Sherri]

yes, but my threads are the same as those of others, others are constantly asking for sn. my other posts are about doubts, everyone has them and asks. it looks like you think the police are behind my account. I don't want to die thinking that I also had problems on this fucking site, last place I visited

Ok let's start see that search bar on top? Type Stan Guide. It has all the answers you need. Try that one if you need help let me know.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

OP, people aren't being hard on you because you are new, it's because of how you've been since you joined. The first few days you spammed the forum with threads, you spammed people's PMs about finding SN and were aggressive and demanding about them telling you. That set up distrust and resentment. Then you asked a lot of basic questions about methods, questions about VAT, questions about what part of the house you should suicide in, now a question about what you should do about this note idea. It's your suicide, your note, your life, we don't own that and it doesn't seem like you do, either, so it's frustrating.

Do you know why babies cry? To be irritating enough that someone will give attention to their needs. When an adult had needs and cries, and other adults can't fix their problems but the adult keeps crying, it gets really irritating and frustrating. Try listening to a youtube video of a baby incessantly crying and see how you physically and emotionally feel; I bet you'll want to turn it off, and if you can't, then you're really going to get frustrated!

You're an adult. There are things you have to figure out for yourself. You haven't been asking for support, you've been consistently asking others to figure things out for you and make decisions for you. From the outside, it begins to feel like you're jumping up and down and yelling, "Pay attention to me and fix everything for me!!!!" We don't do that here. It's a pro-choice support site for adults, not a fast-food drive-thru for instant solutions, nor a daycare center for children who can't take care of themselves.

That's just my direct and honest opinion. That may not fit with how people communicate in your culture. I'm not showing you disrespect, I'm showing you the respect of honesty so that you can stop suffering in this shared space and get along if that's what you seek. Most of us here are Westerners, our culture functions differently from Latin cultures, we communicate more directly and we tend to expect each other to do basic things for ourselves. If you have a learning disability some other kind of disability, we still can't take responsibility for your suicide or anything to do with it.

All that said, I do feel like you've been getting unfairly harassed in this thread, even some bullying. If you think this has been happening, then you can take ownership of this problem and report it to the mods.

But moving forward, if you want to be treated well and to get along, because most of us would want to also get along with you and with each other,, then you need to treat others well by not harassing them or making demands, and by researching answers to your wants and your questions instead of asking like a child who doesn't know how to use the internet or do anything for themselves. You can also get more support by giving support. You're not the only person on the forum who is in a sea of shit. If you give a little genuine attention and compassion to others who are also in seas of shit by visiting their threads and offering a hug or advice you think you can capably give, then they will be more likely to be reciprocal, to care about your threads, and to give you attention and compassion in return. If you're not in a place that you can offer these things to others, that's okay, but you are an adult and have to do some basic things for yourself, or your wants and needs become too taxing for others in their own seas of shit.

I sincerely hope there was some advice in this comment that helped you. If not, that's okay. I tried. I approached you in good faith, and I leave it to you to do with my words whatever you decide. If something was in error or didn't serve, toss it out. If it was too direct and not soft or comforting enough, so that you can't hear my logic, well, I tried. I was as clear as I could be, and I offered advice to help you, not push you down further in the sea of shit.

Well said.

 

[Sherri]

Well said.

Wise words as always underscore .

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

yes, but my threads are the same as those of others, others are constantly asking for sn. my other posts are about doubts, everyone has them and asks. it looks like you think the police are behind my account. I don't want to die thinking that I also had problems on this fucking site, last place I visited

No, your posts are not like the posts of others. The people who do post the way you do and want to be part of the community listen to the heartfelt advice of others and/or the warnings from mods, and they stop posting that way.

And you don't listen to the advice, you instead try to put guilt on us. That's a manipulation. It's emotional blackmail that's meant to get someone to feel bad and back down from their position. It doesn't make me feel bad, it tells me that you are aggressive, just as you were when you first joined and were demanding people tell you where to get SN. Others do not constantly ask for SN the way that you did.

I'm sorry, I have really tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. I even wrote you a long post explaining how to get along. But your way of posting and ignoring advice and mod warnings fits an established pattern of some pro-life infiltrators. If you want people to stop suspecting you, the mods and other members have told you how. It's your responsibility now.

 

[mimiopo22]

I'm definitely not a pro-life! hahahahahahhaahh

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

I'm definitely not a pro-life! hahahahahahhaahh

It's not that you don't see what I'm/we're saying, but that you don't want to agree.

It's not that you're not aware, it's that you don't care.

These are strong signs of manipulation.

I'll leave you to sink or swim on your own, I won't waste any more effort. I doubt you'll be a member for much longer anyway since you seem determined to continue as you have in spite of the threat of ban on another thread today.

Regardless of your intentions, whether good or ill, I wish for your well-being. Ciao.

 

[mimiopo22]

anyway maybe I was insistent in the pm with some because I could not wait to be able to ask for information on sn because in sn I found what I was looking for for months and I apologize for this. but to say that I was downright aggressive seems exaggerated to me. I'm the least aggressive person on earth. aggressive where?