YEAH
All my life growing up, that's all I was told. I didn't even have any known disability or anything. Mainly just nobody around to teach me anything.
Yet I still need to be told at every single corner that I shouldn't do anything - that I can't do anything.
But if I bring up what amounts to "okay, if I can't do anything ever, then I'd rather die!", the response is anger, as if I was entirely and extremely unreasonable for wanting to exist and participate in the world.