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Wisdom3_1-9

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Jul 19, 2020
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I feel horrible tonight because a dear friend of mine is in a lot of pain. In his stronger days, he's the one who's by my side helping me through difficult times. I try my best to be there for him, but I'm so weak myself, I can't provide him with the support he needs to get through this. I feel horrible. My own issues are weighing me down to the point where I can't lift him up. I wish I had strength enough to help.
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
Oct 30, 2019
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I don't know the situation that either of you are in. But often times a sympathetic ear can go a long way. I hope things begin to turn around for both of you.
 
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GoodPersonEffed

GoodPersonEffed

Brevity is my middle name, but my name was TL
Jan 11, 2020
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Have you asked him what support he needs?

Do you have to lift him up? Like, could you gently paddle and float beside him while he's on a flotation device?
 
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greebo6

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Sep 11, 2020
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Don't feel horrible.
You are doing your best and you are still there for him. That's all you can do .
I am sure it is appreciated.
 
toseeyousmile

toseeyousmile

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Nov 23, 2020
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honestly, even though I don't know your situation, simply being there is already a lot, best of luck to both of you.
 

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