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Sad news has flooded social media platforms alleging that an 11-year-old boy tragically ended his life to "please" his unloving mom who had been showing hostility towards him over the years.

Unconfirmed revelations claim that Alphonso Owino from Kisumu in Kenya opted to end his life as a birthday present to his mom, Grace Atenio who had never been happy with him ever since she gave birth to him, claiming that he had brought misfortunes to her.

According to the Kenya News Agency, the sub-location assistant chief responsible for the investigation dismissed the theory that has already been considered gospel truth. The theory claimed that Alphonso wrote a note before his death.


He (assistant chief Maurice Saf) however confirmed that an 11-year-old Kudho Primary School student did commit suicide.

Sources close to the bereaved family confirmed the uncovering note left out by the grade 3 primary school student narrating why he decided to end his life after his mother preferred to be accompanied to shops by one of her children and not Alphonso.

According to social media reports, the 11-year-old wrote that "on this special day I want you to be the happiest mother ever," before he committed suicide.

He added that "every day you used to say that happiness left your life the day I was born. You told me dad also left because of me. So today, I want to change things. I want you to be very happy and live as if I never existed".

"You told me that you would never look at me with love but I always admired you as the best mom on earth. I hope one day you will think of me. I hope in heaven you will finally hold me and kiss me. The best gift I could have given you is leaving your life as you have always told me you wished I was never born. I love you, mom. Happy birthday", he added.


An audio clip allegedly made by the boy's mother reveals that she had denied his son to accompany her to shops because he had not bathed. She further narrated that she was shocked to hear through a call that her son had opted to kill himself over the matter.

She, however, denied having preferences of her other children over her deceased son, Alphonso Owino.

Details of the suicide have not yet been released by the police.

How many people have I made unhappy just by my mere presence? My day will come soon...
 
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avoid_slow_death

avoid_slow_death

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This....no words. No words. Definitely know how this little boy feels all too well. Was the same age too on my first serious attempt and like him I wanted to please a parent who resented my existence too. This world is not for me. I should never ever have existed in the first place.
 
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whywere

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I was called "the mistake" by my "parents" to my face and in public and when I turned 18 got kicked out and never heard from them again, their choice. Older brother and younger sister and have not heard from them in decades. Much better than having to put up with them. They are self-centered and so greedy. Walter
 
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UseItOrLoseIt

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Jesus, these "mothers"... Nevermind that this hits so close to home - the boy was 11. This woman shoud be stoned to death.
 
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WornOutLife

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This is so heart-breaking. I can't believe my eyes.

Goddamn nonsense world and life!
 
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DeadButDreaming

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I met a woman who said she wished she had aborted her 2 now-adult children, because they were an impediment in her career as a lawyer. I've never met someone so unaware of their obnoxiousness. On the other hand, I can understand some parents being unable to cope. I remember this couple on a talk show telling a story about their autistic daughter. She got on the school bus, and the parents went inside. A few minutes later the bus driver was at the front door. Their daughter had soiled herself and smeared the feces on the bus windows.
 
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lanax09

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WHAT. ACTUALLY WHAT. poor kid, what could he have done to have caused those horrible things his mother claimed. I'm so angry.
 
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nolongerhuman

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That's incredibly sad. Poor thing. 11 is so young to even think about doing that to yourself. Some people should never be parents
 
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FuneralCry

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Human beings can be so cruel. The more I read about things like this the more I am ashamed to be human. That mother didn't deserve to have that child.
 
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wow this is so sad... May he rest in peace
 
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theunderdog

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This is so so sad. Some people just don't deserve to be parents.
 
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Largeletters

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Heartbreaking. I hate how it is so easy to bring a child into this world. Hope he can find peace on the other side, RIP.
 
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LONE WOLF.

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Tears for the child, Anger for the mother!
 
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Mom must have been euphoric.
 
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InterstateFlowers

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This genuinely made me tear up, I know exactly what this kid felt at his age and I know how heart-breaking it is to write that letter. Rest in peace, Alphonso. :heart:
 
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Man this one really hurts to read. That poor kid just knew. He knew he deserved better deep down. It's stories like this that really reinforce my beliefs that maybe antinatalism would prevent suffering. I'm starting to believe that most people are just not meant to be parents.
 
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GenesAndEnvironment

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Still better than flowers and a gift card you'll never use.
 
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LONE WOLF.

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Nov 4, 2020
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11yrs old??? WTF!!! I'm struggling to find the words, How can a 11yr old Child decide to end his life? What the hell happened to the poor wee mite! I'm Crying real tear's for him! I just don't know what else to say! 😢, Sleep in the arm's of Angel's little one. This Post really hit me in the feels.
 
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Julgran

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May the boy rest peacefully in heaven, but I insist - he never had a mother.
 
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Lost Magic

Lost Magic

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That's a sad story but I am glad the boy is no longer suffering with a mother who never wanted him in the first place. This story should be a lesson for future parents. If you bring a child into this world, it is your responsibility to do your best for them or don't have them at all. I think the latter would be better. Especially, if that person was never fit to be a parent in the first place.
 
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Depressed Cat

Depressed Cat

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Jan 4, 2022
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This is so tragic to hear.:aw: I hope the boy found everlasting peace after CTB.

I won't even say anything about the piece of trash called his mother.
 
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blueclover_.

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Oct 11, 2021
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I met a woman who said she wished she had aborted her 2 now-adult children, because they were an impediment in her career as a lawyer. I've never met someone so unaware of their obnoxiousness. On the other hand, I can understand some parents being unable to cope. I remember this couple on a talk show telling a story about their autistic daughter. She got on the school bus, and the parents went inside. A few minutes later the bus driver was at the front door. Their daughter had soiled herself and smeared the feces on the bus windows.
This is why abortions should be legal. Both parties, the woman and her children, are suffering just because society can't take a no from a woman about a decision of her body.
 
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WrongPlaceWrongTime

WrongPlaceWrongTime

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Jul 4, 2021
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Life is beautiful, right?
 
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mistvissione11e

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It came to my mind around the same time as him too, only im here now
 
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maakies

maakies

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Dec 7, 2021
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I did a similar thing a couple years younger, but didn't get to succeed. I instead got sent to very bad therapists and psychiatrists. Oh well. RIP this kid.
 
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GentlyFading

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Dec 28, 2021
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I...I was this kid.

My first suicide attempt was at age 11 where I tried to hang myself (with a knot made for breaking your neck not restricting the bloodflow to the brain). I was obsessed with being a child worthy of love. I thought that I was a failure of a child and the only way that my mother would be happy with my existence would be if I was dead. Dead children have no agency. Their stories can be whatever their parents wish of them.

Rest in peace Alphonso Owino. You deserved so much better from the people whose duty was to protect and love you. You've always been such an amazing and loving child. I'm sorry no one told you. I hope that, wherever you go, you receive tenfold the love and kisses and hugs that you deserve. Goodbye angel.
 
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